Anyone hate tomboys?

Question

They act like men, but want to be treated like women.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't hate them, people can do what they want. However, I am not attracted to them at all and most of the other guys I know aren't either. They tend to be the types of hypocritical women who complain about patriarchy (even though they are privileged to live in a country where they have the same legal rights as men) and how hard their lives are because they didn't get everything they wanted. Then they blame the entire male gender for their issues and act like men never have to deal with unfair situations. They demand 'equality' but their definition of it is skewed because they just want power and special treatment for themselves. Well, I'm not saying all masculine looking women are like that, but the majority of radical feminists I have met dress and act overly masculine and aggressive. They also tend to be very rude to masculine men in general and put down guys who like traditional gender roles. At least that's the experience I had with women who dressed like men in America. I would get accused of being sexist if I disagreed with a woman and was basically told that my opinion doesn't matter because I am a man. I honestly didn't like living in the US because a lot of the women I talked to were pretty rude and confrontational. I felt like I wasn't welcome there because I am a masculine guy who is only attracted to feminine women.

JackSmy · Accepted Answer

So just more interesting, and exciting? I don't like a lot of sports, and a lot of 'guy things' like drinking in bars, and bowling, and sht like that!
Nothing wrong with a woman that likes things like, maybe target shooting, or hunting, or something else? Are you one?
I actually like the duality, that she can get 'dirty' and work on cars, and then clean up, and look like an Elegant Lady, in an hour!!
Why can't she be both, and love both sides?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

All the girl activities are boring really. I rather play video games than go clothes shopping and I rather play soccer than paint my nails. But you know other people like that stuff so I won’t judge them. Why do guys get all the fun activities?

Elsa143 · Accepted Answer

No because they're bluntly honest and don't get jealous of females. They're more trustworthy according to my experience.

ChurchOfSteel · Answer

In that sense, yeah, that could be the worst type of woman, in my opinion. No femininity, but with the expectations from it.

My girlfriend grew up a straight tomboy, but she is more a man than most dudes, honestly. She has a bit of the wanting to be treated like a woman thing, and some more childlike aspect of "nothing is ever my fault, all responsibility rests on my man, even my actions; and, I'm perfect"; but, she also plays the masculine role (not that I play the feminine, simply that she adheres to the disadvantages of masculinity, as well).

She still dresses up, does the yoga pants/tights thing, etc, and puts makeup on and such, otherwise I wouldn't have been interested.

But yeah. That is pretty much the worst, in my view. No femininity, but wanting the benefits of being masculine along with the benefits of being feminine, but without disadvantages from either. That's greedy. And misplaced, especially if they expect to be rewarded or looked up to for it, which I find is often the case.

My brother is a bit like that, too. He acts like a woman, but expects to be treated like a man. It's like. You don't get to be a leader, but follow someone and blame them for anything that goes wrong, while taking all the credit for anything that goes right. You don't get to have your cake and eat it too. You get to choose which poison you have to take. That's it.

Well, I'm sure it's a lot more complicated, and this is a bit of me simply venting, haha. Either way, yes, I agree with you, generally speaking.

Twenty2 · Answer

I do. I was once saying bye to my friend and he was with his Tom boy friend so I thought of wishing her bye too. We all were at the window and they were looking out and I patted the Tom boy on her elbow region and she just shrug it. It felt really awkward. I just said bye to my male friend then.

Gravit1 · Answer

My sister's a tomboy, but maybe has gotten more feminine so tomgirl I guess. More femininity is more desirable in women, but some women are a little more rugged. She joined the military and served 4 years. Some men like rugged women more. The women in my family are more rugged, but I try to accept a variety of women. God designed every Man and Woman differently, accepting his design for you is an important step in life.

CasaNorba · Answer

the tomboys I've met use to hate being treated like women. they would always mock me for doing so, but I never hated them. at least they're better than feminists, that's for sure

pocketman · Answer

Not bothered. My sister was a tomboy. And she loved doing boy activities. She did like to get treated like a boy at times but deep in her heart she knew she needed to be treated like a woman. I think for most people it's a phase and eventually they grow out of it.

TheAfrikan · Answer

Once had to date a Tom boy, and she had all those crazy vines guys possess you know video games, horror shit, bboy dancing, dressing. by the way when she had to put on a dress damn she was a pure queen.
So for me I have nothing on them as long as they rock that female version too at times.

JKingOff · Answer

Not really. I like hanging out with tomboys. We usually share a lot of common interests. I'm just not fond of when they dress the part. I still prefer women to look like women.

Niya2006 · Answer

I used to be a tomboy when I was younger so no I don't hate them

Anonymous · Answer

Why would I hate them? I'm far from a tomboy, but there's no reason to hate them lol there's no one way to be a man or woman. Live your life how you want to.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't hate anything that doesn't oppress my life. Ironically what intolerance I have is for the intolerant.

ZELLxoxo · Answer

i dont hate them at all but sometimes they are very pretentious and irritating

Dargil · Answer

The expression varies by culture. Here, it often means "horsey". She is not gay but likes the life guys live and cleans up well.

CameronStark · Answer

I don't like tomboys past a certain age. How old can a heterosexual woman be and it still be acceptable to act like a tomboy? It's kinda immature if you ask me.

pigoat · Answer

Most tomboys I've seen are pretty well liked  They aren't a bad thing by definition

angeliquedevereux2 · Answer

No? They're just girls that are more masculine, what's wrong with that?

Ninafrances3 · Answer

I know quite a few tomboys and they are really likeable

Koalamate · Answer

I don't hate tomboys but I struggle to see them desirable unless they are really feminine.

ashish804 · Answer

i actually love themm... its kinda getting benefits of woman without actually having any disadvantages.. means they are really only advantages

winterfox10 · Answer

I don't hate them. I just don't find them at all attractive.

prakhindev92 · Answer

I love them i have few friends , the thing is that we can count on them , i respect them as woman also , i can count on them as a man

AmeerX · Answer

I think Tomboyish girls are sweet as a person. They know how a man likes to feel

guitarnovice · Answer

Nope. Tomboys are extremely attractive to me. One of my favorite personality traits.

MountAverage · Answer

Nope. I'm not that petty, bitter, or judgmental. Live and let live.

NicoPadron · Answer

i love tomboys, easier to get along with and they can be part of the boys

DreamCatchcer · Answer

Nothing wrong with tomboys unless they are misandrist Bull Dykes.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, I actually prefer tomboyish girls, and no, they don't like to be treated like women.

dwiller943 · Answer

Do you even know what a tomboy is?

scarlett774 · Answer

I don’t think u know what a Tom boy is 😂

CarlosWoods · Answer

Nope I don't hate at all

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

Hate? No, why would I hate them?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Nope Tomboys are awesome

douride2 · Answer

Generalize much there.

CoolKatie · Answer

I am more gamer then tomboy

Pete671 · Answer

No I think tomboys are awesome,

phronesis14 · Answer

Lollz is cool This no balance

In_Trance · Answer

Hate is a pretty strong word

The_unknown_memer · Answer

Nah they don't bother me

Guthm · Answer

I think I love tomboys 😧

Nachowedgie · Answer

My first girlfriend was a tomboy

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

I do not hate them , no. That is their way of life

Cryptic-Game · Answer

Don't hate them but ain't into them.

nodnol32 · Answer

Don't hate them.

Don-_-Don · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like them but I don't hate them either.

CubaPirate · Answer

No live and let live

Osborne775 · Answer

i dont hate them

billluc69 · Answer

they can be sexy

Gripper1970 · Answer

Not me :)

Anyone hate tomboys?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Girls, is it bad I find all tomboys to be annoying?

Anyone hate tomboys?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Girls, is it bad I find all tomboys to be annoying?

We're glad to see you liked this post.