My coworkers are having a Halloween party and I feel left out. I really don't wanna be bored and do nothing?

[smahala1991]

I just want to have fun and be accepted. But I'm stuck having to work that night and on top of that it's a double shift. It's going to be lonely since I'll have no friends to hang out or do shit with.

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Someone asked me why don't I just ask if I can go along? I kinda think it's rude to ask if you haven't been invited properly

[NathanDavis]

risk it... invite yourself, tell them you want to go... and then go and have fun

I often invited myself to parties... lmao, and I did because I really wanted to be there and because someone I was interested on would be there as well... I even went to a couple where the host did NOT want me there but they could just not get themselves to tell me don't come and this is how I met three of my girlfriends

I invited myself to parties or reunions where they would have been, lol

[Cherry234]

Is there something fun you can do before you go to work? It sucks having to work on Halloween

[smahala1991]

I work the whole weekend

[kyleelyn199723]

Why putting hanging out above money? You most likely aren’t missing anything special.

[smahala1991]

Money isn't everything, I want friends.

[kyleelyn199723]

Money isn’t everything, but going to a party doesn’t necessarily mean you will make friends per say.

[smahala1991]

I mean inclusion is important

[kyleelyn199723]

It is when you aren’t working a double. You most likely aren’t missing much.

[smahala1991]

Yeah but if your coworkers were having get together wouldn't you want to be involved? I think everyone would

[kyleelyn199723]

My coworkers are actually having a get together tomorrow and I can’t get because I have to take a make up test for class. I can always skip the test and get a 0 but priorities. How immature of me to get a 0 just for a get together.

[smahala1991]

What are you studying?

[kyleelyn199723]

I am in the field of dietetics. It’s very important I pass this test tomorrow

[smahala1991]

True, working in a restaurant and dieticians are two different things

[kyleelyn199723]

I do also work in a restaurant lol. I am a waitress

[smahala1991]

I am a line cook lol

[kyleelyn199723]

I am sorry 😕 I know linecooks get worked to death

[smahala1991]

We do and I'm on the fry station

[msc545]

They must hate you