How to not me desperate for social hangout and I’m literally so miserable because I have nothing to do?

[Anonymous]

It’s 4th of July in the US and never in my entire life have a spent a 4th with my friends aside from once in 2nd grade. I hate never having people to hangout with because even when u do (which is very rare) I feel left out. I want to make more friends but I never meet anyone new I just see friend groups having the fun I’ve never had. I’m a social person and it kills me to have nothing to do ever. Why do I even bother nothing changes anyway I don’t want to “work on myself” for another year I just want to have fun

[Changiis07]

If it makes you feel any better I have not hung out with friends on a 4th of July mostly family but the older I get the less I care about holidays lol Well thing is friend groups start out small if you hangout with a big group that knows each other well you might feel left out as you mentioned. It's best to start out small get out there, be around people that like the same things as you or even at church there are good people willing to invite you. If you are social then you should have no problem getting out there. Look for friends that like your presence. Maybe looking into meetup. com

[TheFlak38]

If you don't have anyone to hang out with you're not a social person. You're just a woman desperate for some more attention.

[Asker]

How is wanting friends wanting attention. Social interaction is a basic human necessity unless you’re a unempathetic hermit.