Do you hug your siblings? Is it appropriate?
Will you hug your brother or sister?
Do you hug your siblings? Is it appropriate?
Well I don't have a sister so no chances of me having a slutty sister and my brothers aren't slutty and dont dress slutty either... Lol 🤣... I suppose refer to me... As I am the girl... Well I dont dress slutty... I dress elegantly attractive 😘 and I don't act slutty I flirt with decorum 🥰... Regardless my brothers have still hugged me when I an dressed elegantly even if its a low bodice top... As I answered on the original question I hug mine brothers every time I see them and not only do I hug them in greeting but even randomly while we are hanging out. I don't understand the issue. Sometimes when any one of my bros are sitting down and i stand behind them reach around and hug them as I plant a kiss on their cheek and sometimes I lay my chin on their head... And I'll just stand there like that leaning on them chilling and chatting no big deal. I love my brothers. I hug whom I love 💕.
Awww soooo cute n this is how i do with both my brothers i love to stand behind them n rest my chin on them tbh
We are girls we can get away with the cute adorably innocent affection... I don't believe my brothers would do the same to each others but interestingly i have seen my brothers lean on my dads head arms folded on to top of his head and them planting their chins on the own arms putting pressure on my dad its brief and usually rough and followed by banter over new grays or lack of hair lol
Oh and I agree with you I think its cute too
Oh and forgot to say our hugs start off gentle and loving but then sometimes my bros turn it into a bear hug and I get lift up til I plead mercy 🤣
Aww that is also so cute n not just that but so natural as well tbh
Hehe yea my brothers also do that sometimes
I have no siblings. Would you adopt me as a brother from a different mother?
@Guardian45 sure 😊
YAAAAYYYY!!!
@Guardian45 😊😊
I have three cousins and one older brother. I hug my cousins from time to time whenever I visit them. Two of my cousins (they’re girls) live in New Zealand, so I don’t see them often. I hug them whenever I visit them/or they visit me. I feel comfortable hugging them, but it only lasts for a second or two. More than that, I feel awkward. I give my brother side hugs and do a fist bump.
Hugging your sibling is appropriate.
With REF to the update: my aunt would not allow my cousins to wear revealing or provocative clothes, but even if she did, it wouldn’t matter. I haven’t hugged anyone for more than two seconds. I’ve hugged my mum for a minute though.. she was crying and I hugged to comfort her
Nice but may i ask why the side hug specially when u do it only for a couple seconds
I feel less awkward with side hugs
Hehe i hug both my brothers or cousins n i never feel awkward tbh
I hug both my brothers n cousins n i never feel awkward tbh
Good for you!
I’m generally an awkward person in general. I’m not a fan of being touched by anyone. Side hugs are the most comfortable greeting hugs that I know of. 😊
Ah fuck. I used “general” 2 times. Sorry about that 😭
Hehe no worries lol
N well i love being touched hehe
N since i m usually topless or naked in house i hug them just like that
Hi elizamichael1, yes, I do hug my brother, (up until recently) He is gay so he and his partner have no problem with that.
P. S. My discussion (s) I have had with you re my 'cousin' have recently taken a very UGLY TURN, and I wanted to Private Message you about it and get your opinion as to what my ATTITUDE should be with all of the blow back I have gotten from family - gay brother- her husband etc. A real nightmare. I am going to a counselor about it sometime in the future. Glad to have YOU as a resource also.
Bruce
Aww i m so sorry sweetheart
N yea sure
I miss the era when questions like this didn’t need to be asked.
My goodness so true... Simpler times
People used to know what family meant, people used to know what woman meant, etc. Thanks for MHG
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I don't understand why this is even a question. Brother, sister, parents they can hug each other right?
Absolutely but some here think its weird for brother n sister to be closer
Tell me about it... But yet we get people taking it as weird
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Girls can hug all they want. The problem is people are so hair triggered to see men as perverts, pedophiles, creepy, etc., That a man hugging anyone can be problematic.
@KrakenAttackin i agree with u
I wish this wasn't true.
@KrakenAttackin would have been so gooodd
Huh?
@KrakenAttackin i mean it would hav been better if men were not being blamed so easily
That's exactly right. Right it wrong, if a woman makes an accusation against a man, people will believe her. Having the facts on his side is no guarantee of his safety. This is why men have begun to shy away from women.
@KrakenAttackin it is true unfortunately and not just they shy away but also many are pretty reserved to make comments and all only because some stupid bitches would call some statement a harassment... Gosh i hate that
Of course!! Who's the crazy person who asked if it's appropriate? It would be crazy not to hug them, rude, even. I would be very concerned about any relative of mine who found that inappropriate.
Now thats the kind of response we need
Yes, of course I hug my brother. Why wouldn’t I? I don’t even understand why this question is being asked? There is absolutely nothing sexual or inappropriate about hugging a sibling!
But for some it is unfortunately
Then maybe your question should have been “if your brother is sexually abusing you, do you hug him at normal family events?” Because for the overwhelming majority of us who HAVE been raped by a family member, the vast majority are raped and abused by uncles, step fathers, and to a lesser degree step siblings! As with step-siblings who met as teenagers, we are FAR more likely to see a very “uncomfortable” but perfectly legal, and consensual sexual relationship!
I understand that it DOES sometimes happen among siblings, but it is simply FAR more rare than it is with uncles and step father’s!
Oh no no thank goodness my brothers or any family members never abused me not even verbally they all love n care for me
My brother n i were commenting on someone's question n i offered him a hug n the asker of question said we were weird thatswhy he asked this question n i copied
You’ll forgive me but at first look, it did seem like you were attacking me for my answer. As most people who know me can attest, I WAS raped by my uncle, and he raped me almost every week day for almost 3 months. And working with survivors of rape and incest has made me acutely aware of the trauma that it causes, as well as the level of abuse that comes from blood fathers and blood related brothers. It is not even close to the amt of incidents that occur with step fathers (#1) and uncles by marriage (#2) and uncles by blood (#3). After that are neighbors, trusted adults (other than teachers or coaches), then teachers, then coaches, and finally after all those, you get to blood related brothers, and finally blood related fathers. Does it happen? Yes, but with such infrequent measure that it isn’t considered to be a major problem. (And I’m obviously not referring to innocent childhood experimentation that occurs because of availability of the child, and lack of parental supervision.) innocent childhood experimentation is not sexual abuse, it’s a natural curiosity and happens more often than most people realize. (unless there is greater than a five year age difference, then it is considered pedophilia regardless of the age of the offender.)
Also… I’m acutely aware that to a girl (or boy) who WAS sexually assaulted by their father or blood related brother, then it is a MASSIVE problem for them. Complete with all the trauma, and PTSD that accompanies such a betrayal! I was speaking merely in general, that fathers an brothers are not the main cause of sexual abuse, not even close!
I agree to your views darlin
N for me i was raped for months when i was 15 n when i was 17 i was kidnapped (by a friend of dad who was like family) and raped by multiple men including him for whole week... N when i was returned to dad i was in so bad condition that i fell unconscious for 2 days n couldn't walk properly
I know the feeling n impacts of such brutal incidents
Yeah, I’m definitely sorry that happened to you! The trauma never goes away, we just finally learn to live normally with it as part of us!
Yup thats true
If my sister were still alive, of course I would hug her. We lived far apart and only occasionally saw each other. Whenever we did see each other, we greeted each other with a hug, and another one when we said goodbye.
Aww i m sorry to know darling
I hope u guys shared so much love that it still keeps ur heart warm
As 3 sisters, that's all we do is hug all the time.
We are nudists, so no that doesn't matter. Maybe with a male it would be different
Great habit i would say but why would it be different if u had brother if i can ask
Just seems to make sense that any body touching in the nude that close and intimate might tend to instigate things... lol
Hehe u know i m also nudist n so is my family n it never bothered me i just hug them
Yeah I hug my brothers it's cool but my youngest brother would be like back up then I put him in a bear hug it's funny because he is tall 6'5 I am 6 feet lol then my mom yells leave your brother alone to me lol!
Hehe😊😊
And ur sister?
Hehe n there's nothing wrong in it
Without a doubt, i have one brother only and he is dear to me. Some might call it weird or even gay 🤷♂️ and i am always out of fucks to care
Thats the spirit
Update! I had my feuds with my family but i will always give them love through hugs. A slutty sis will get hug just like my manwhore brother do 😁.
Hehe good then
I hug my twin sister, on the rare occasions she wears slutty clothes I get hard so try and avoid it, she has put her hand over my private area and squeezed it when this has happened though, and she of ten tease me sexually,,,
You are telling me she is just 10 and you get teased sexually? How on earth is that possible huhh she is just a kid for heavens sake
I would hug and I did as well my sister wear something exposure outfits will compliment her and even topless.
Her freedom and right to express and explore.
I must respect her choice.
Very rightly said n i like u n respect u for that
There's nothing wrong with hugging your sibling
Oh and I am sorry to know that you were raped. I hope you could overcome the consequences of this traumatic experience. 🙏🏻 Why do girls have to face such a terrible thing like rape 😔😔
Yes you are right darling
Thanks n yes i m alright n ok now.. that happened when i was 15 n 17
I truly hope that anything like that would never happen with you again and you will always have sex only if you want it
I hug my sister quite often, also my aunts and uncles as well as my cousin and her daughter. We're a hugging family. I used to hug my grandma, but she's a bit too old for it to be safe (she'll turn 96 in October if she lives that long).
Awww so cute family
N long live grand ma love from me
Yes I hug my brother considering he is basically all I have left
Awww❤️
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i don't hug people usually. i don't like it. it's very awkward for me
Woww but why
i don't need to feel their bodies it's gross
Woww... Ok
only if she's pretending to be my sister
Alright
Im not a hugger but if they’re crying, i shoulder pat/rub or offer a hug
And if they are just too happy or seeing u after a while?
Wave or side hug
Why side hug wouldn't that be odd n weird
Im not a hugger and dont front hug unless im dating someone
Ok got it
If I had siblings. Yes. I have always been a hugger and hug everyone in my family
Thats how it should be😊😊
I always hug my sister...
Hug is so comfortable
So true n it is always so relaxing
True
Thats good
Yup if she was being slutty n naughty
Lol dont u know what is naughty n kinky huhh
Like if she was wearing something short or exposing or if she was topless
N if she pressed her tits more against u while hugging etc
Lol like what
Enlighten me lol
U cheeky monkey
I m sure u can imagine urself
Well once u run out of them then let me know
I don't see any harm hugging, but yes if the person is dressed slutty, it's a distraction. Better to maintain distance than to feel horny about it
Thanks darling
N yes there is absolutely no harm or anything wrong in hugging ur siblings n i wouldn't mind even when being dressed slutty or not
Lol true but hey i would tease him more
Lol...😋😋 maybe press myself into him a little more or press my tits against him a bit more
Oh i m definitely hot n sexy sister
Yup 😊😊
I dont hug my family. Nothing to do with anything other than they raised me cold and now that's what they got left. Funny thing is I'd hug a total stranger lol
Awww i m sorry honey
😊😊 thank you
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No, I would not hug my brother. We have not spoken in years.
Aww i m sorry to know
Yeah
I don’t have any sisters but if I did, I would think nothing wrong with helping each other with sexual issues.
N there actually is nothing wrong in tht tbh
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