I’m upset with my aunt for swapping my piece of cake with hers behind my back?

[Anonymous]

So recently I went shopping with my mom and aunt. We went to a market and got 2 slices of cake- which I paid for, 1 for her and 1 for me, and each slice was placed in a separate bag. I got the slice that had less crust on the outside as it was my preference. There was one final shop that my mom and I went into whilst my aunt waited outside. I left my slice of cake that I was holding with her, and at the time I remember feeling an inkling that she would swap it whilst I was in the shop. At this time her slice was inside another bag of hers so it was out of view. So later, when I got out the shop, I looked inside the bag. The slice had changed. She must have looked inside the bag, preferred my slice and changed it without saying anything. I really don’t know how she could have mixed them up as her slice was in its bag inside her bag. I wouldn’t have minded if she had just been honest and told me which slice she preferred, and I don’t care about the cake, it’s just the going behind my back that upset me. Should I mention it or leave it?

[Anonymous]

next time, mention it as soon as you see it. being quiet about it isn't helping the situation and she'll probably do it again. and you also don't get your cake.

not sure if she knows your reasoning behind why you chose that specific piece, you need to tell her. unless she does know, then that's a whole other story.

[omnivert]

Do mention it and tell her your boundaries. And do this process in a polite manner.

[KrakenAttackin]

This is just classic female behavior.

[Asker]

How do you think I should handle it, if she does something like this in future?

[Anonymous]

She is a skank