I always attract jealous friends even though I’m not pretty?

[Anonymous]

Sorry for the rant. I have this problem. I keep attracting friends who are really nice and hype me up at first, but then become seemingly jealous/competitive out of nowhere. I support them but they end up competing with me. They either one up me, try to sabotage me or put me down. I’m not very pretty or anything so I really don’t understand this. I don’t see my friends as competition and I clap when they win. I have had 4 “best friends” all do the same thing to me in the last few years. What can I do to find some real friends?

[IJhonnyI]

Start off by actually paying attention to who these people are when people hype you up too much and then get jealous that's a huge red flag some people fake there care in the beginning and then start showing there true self later but at the same time it could be who they are but on the other hand they aren't caring people which is better to distance yourself and find people with pure intention example me but I'm not looking for friends I'm looking too hopefully help people and what you gotta do is stop friending people so fast and really see who they are before you do remember the little things are really important but don't always concentrate on only the little things that's just a little bit of advice

[VV3ZZY]

In regards to dating, I was always say "there is no such thing as competition"... it's just not the right fit. I used to try to compete but the more I try the more I fail. Then I stopped playing the game. If people want to compete, let them win. And If there's a guy who chooses your friend over you. His loss right?

[Marianna546]

Lol i have the same problem for some reason i try to be nice but end up being out of the "friend group"

[Marianna546]

you can't do anything for that.. the right people will soon arrive

[IJhonnyI]

Yes you are correct only thing you can do is not be friend people until u know who they are other than that like you said the right people will enter your life 🙏🏽

[SeekingVirginWife]

This is why you need a husband to protect you from the evil witches.

[Wise4myage]

You are prettier than you think, and you probably have an outgoing personality.