Is this weird to do?

[Anonymous]

My friend said I could stay w her because I wanted to move out of my boyfriends parents house and get some peace of mind from his mother, but my friend is now acting like my parents/ his mother... she's asking me questions not even my mom asks me. Well she said the room I could stay in has a bed. Before I came there and debated if I should go which was a while (few months) she never thought to tell me the bed was gone or no longer there and I'd be on a couch. I don't feel good because she never thought to mention it but just tried to keep getting me to live with her. I just moved out my boyfriend last week? Would it be odd to move back in with my boyfriend?

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What do the best way to tell her I will be moving back out?

[jeepthing]

It would be odd but it's a little weird your friend is trying to control you and is so adamant about you sleeping on a couch. It would be different if you had a bed/room. Sadly i think your only option is moving back in with the boyfriend till you can afford your own place

[Asker]

I totally agree. I even have arthritis in my shoulder that I don't want to complain about to her because she did offer her home. But, how could I tell her this?

[jeepthing]

Just be open and honest with her. It's never good to mince words. Your feelings and needs are valid and should be listened to.

[Asker]

You're right. I truly appreciate it.

[slatyb]

Today doesn't sound like a good idea. Is there another choice?

[Anonymous]

you're the most important person in your life. Do what you know is the best for you, it doesn't matter if someone gets offended or whatever, you go first.

[Asker]

You're right sis. I was packing and she asked if we got an apartment and I just said yeah and she said yeah I wanna see it, then later asked if my dog is an emotional support dog, an when I said yeah she just said good and looked at me lol