Why does it feel like I’m the only one that tells my friends when others are talking shit but know one tells me anything?

[Anonymous]

When there’s drama I bring it to light so there’s no more passive aggressive shit but people say “I haven’t heard anything about you” every time. Like I’m not perfect and no one ever says anything… I need to restart entirely with friends but has anyone else gone through this

[DavidRaul]

No. We don't talk about this stuff at all. Or talk shit about anyone behind their backs, unless they don't belong to our friend circle. But if you are in a such situation. They won't tell you if someone has spoken something bad about you. They don't want to hurt you. Or maybe no one talked shit behind your back and you are just overthinking

[Asker]

The group definitely made me feel like I was overthinking but everyone and I mean everyone had something to say about someone so when they said that they never hear anything about me it was hard to believe

[DavidRaul]

You should never ask your friends about it. If they speak, just let it be. Maybe they never talked about you. I never ask anyone if they talk shit behind my back. I just don't care and you should too

[Asker]

Very true thanks