Girls, do you purposely get stern & on point when having to interact with unattractive guys?

[Anonymous]

I've noticed that when I frequently shop at the same stores I notice that half of the gals & a very few guys tend to very stern, serious, cold when making a transaction

One gal in particular did this with me strictly

(cold, serious, stern, annoyed, on a rush) but was "cheery" with everyone else & talkitive

[inhua]

that's how life is for unattractive guys.

it's mother nature's way of telling you to you shouldn't exist to damage the gene pool.

at the end of the day, it's not about who are you but what you are.

[Asker]

So if these older woman do it to me strictly but avoid other guys who are just as ugly?

[inhua]

one thing women are very consistent on is the treatment they have towards men who fall below their bare minimum standards of physical attractiveness.

[Asker]

I've had a long history of getting
"talked too" & "invited" to parties BUT I've always been talked shit behind my back by 9/10 of the SAME gals who want to "invite" me

[inhua]

I don't know? maybe they saw you as the court jester to be made fun of?

[Asker]

I really don't know but many have tried getting my attention & a few have talked about me in sexual ways

"implying this or that" & a few more have been "obsessed" with me for YEARS

Talking a lot of stuff

[dustybiker]

That is usually a sign of disinterest. Yes. If someone isn’t taking a hint you have to be blunt.

[Asker]

What if it's done to me when I'm not every showing any interest to begin with?

[dustybiker]

Warning?

[dustybiker]

Maybe “defensive” is a better word. Don’t take it personally. It’s a woman's judgement off of past experiences.

[Asker]

You've got me lost there

[Asker]

Maybe or maybe not but these woman are much older than me & I do have a boyish face which has me curious on why they would take me "seriously" on anything sexual whether good or bad

[dustybiker]

You’re saying sexual things to unknown woman?

That might be your problem.

[Asker]

NO

But a lot of these older woman get "defensive" towards me (bitchy, aloof, stern) from the get go when I'm around them whether it's my female neighbors or classmates

[dustybiker]

Ah, gotcha. Just smile friendly and try not to stare.

[Asker]

But why "take offense" if I have to walk by them, or live by them?

[dustybiker]

Maybe you are doing something you are unaware of. If given the chance maybe ask? “People keep acting strangely around me today, can you see why?”

[Asker]

I don't flirt nor do I talk to anyone or in the very least try & yet I get treated like some creep who "apparently" wants to chit chat when I don't give any signs

It's happened numerous times with different gals

[dustybiker]

That’s what I mean. Ask one of them.

[Asker]

& risk a verbal confrontation?

[dustybiker]

Not if you ask the way I suggested. Only try if you have an opening too.

[Asker]

That's asking for a potential fight

[dustybiker]

That is your perspective. You’ll never learn if you don’t try.

[Asker]

Aside from. the confrontation

Why the drama? Older woman feels "threatened" by me when I'm not in the least attracted towards her