Are girls generally rude & standoffish when being around a guy they perceive to be "unattractive"?

[Barracuda04]

I'm your typical shy/introvert who doesn't have any friends or a lot of family to begin with

I keep to myself & I don't bother anybody nor do start a conversation with anyone

I've noticed that half of the girls I interact with almost always have a snobby attitude towards me like being patronizing or very cold right from the start

I've had several experiences where a few girls who would walk in front of me have would either have scowls, eyes rolling, or get defensive

[Jitternation]

Yes women hate ugly and awkward men. In fact they would prefer it if you disappeared because your existence is an inconvenience for them. They justify this in their brains by saying “we have the right to be cautious” “men are potential threats” despite the statistics telling you most crimes are committed against men themselves rather than women. Women have the room to be autistic, ugly, and quirky without facing societal backlash. You do not.

[Barracuda04]

hmmm
I've been in situations where a lot of my female neighbors (old & new) would literally feel scared, threatened, or all jittery like if I was around my yard or walking through the neighborhood

[Jitternation]

That’s because they are stupid. They claim to know what’s good and bad for them but like children they don’t. Women are more likely by far to be abused by their husbands or fathers than a complete stranger. It’s not like complete strangers are walking up to women and abusing them. That tends to happen in established relationships. Maybe if you walk out with a wig and make up they will be nice to you and smile and say “stunning and brave.” Anecdotally I read a post from a trans man that said the way women treated him in public felt so dehumanizing that he even considered de transitioning. Simply because he went from strangers smiling and being nice to now seeing him as a threat and are cold and standoffish.

[Barracuda04]

Soooo they feel threatened because I'm unattractive?

[Jitternation]

Yes. For evidence go to a gym nearby and look at how women treat their gym personal trainers. They’ll touch laugh and flirt with him the first time they meet him. Women are not complicated you can tell what they think of you from their body language.

[Barracuda04]

So if i was to "talk shit" with & too family members in my yard while sitting & talking & forcing everybody in the neighborhood to hear about how Insecure I am & how pathetic I am & how I don't like the idea of relationships to begin with

How would in YOUR OPINION females see me as from then on? As this insecure hateful & bitter but non threatening guy?

[Jitternation]

Wtf dude don’t do that. Just makes you come off as a bitter lonely man and will validate their stereotypes. Improve your career prospects, hit the gym and set goals, start investing. Once you achieve milestones it will make you feel better than any woman ever can.

[Barracuda04]

I kinda did that & I've noticed that I'm completely ignored now & none of the girls in my area pay me any mind

Don't know if that helped or not?

[Barracuda04]

If you there I'd like your opinion on HOW guys perceive ugly guys

Kinda curious on how MALES fit into my delimma

[noonejustme]

Sadly appearances, first impressions and so on do give us prejudice on people. I think its mostly because there’s nothing to distract the flaws people have, thus e. g if your awkward, they might think you’re a bit weird.

[Barracuda04]

Soo girls who get cranky with me are just acting superior?

& the ones who act scared are just falling into stereotypes

"He must be evil because he's ugly"

[noonejustme]

humans are complicated creatures, but as gar as i can just guess, those reasons are possible

[Barracuda04]

Let's say for instance

If your average girl had to live by a very unattractive & isolated young man

Just with that description alone

Is it more than enough to cause some hostility & resentment even if the guy doesn't interact with anybody