Does the pain ever stop?

[Anonymous]

To those with toxic family no friends and abandoned by everyone who made it out who cut ties dose the hurt ever fade or dose the suffocating feeling of a shattered soul timeless

[Guy13]

Not without counseling and determination. Seek one.

[Asker]

Can't do that

[Guy13]

Alright. Best with it all.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps you need to do some work on yourself to help move passed this episode. You can choose to move on but maybe you need help to do so.

[Asker]

I don't think it will work since I'm still living with the family that destroys me slowly.

I plan to move in the next year or 2 but even though my family is toxic and need to cut ties there all I ever knew and rejecting your family is hard I have stayed up countless night's balling and puking from the thought of abandoning them and I was just wondering if after you cut the ties does the pain stop or dose the guilt continue to suffocate you

[Opinion Owner]

Ah ok well then they are continually looking at an open wounds. You need to move out and embrace more positives environments. Later in life you may choose to engage with them again.
For now, focus on protecting yourself and working towards a better life away from your current environment.
You don't need to reject them. More about finding a level that you can tolerate.

[Anonymous]

Yes it stops. Sometimes we have to give up some expectations that aren't meant to be.

[Anonymous]

At least nobody can hurt you anymore

[Asker]

Incorrect I still live with them

[Opinion Owner]

I think this problem is easily solvable with renting a flat.

[Asker]

Can't do that I have animals that depend on me to take care of them