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I think im a Nice and friendly person , v chatty and smiley and i make it obvious im interested in hanging out outside of where i meet them (work, events) people add me on Facebook and Instagram but thats as far as it goes. Its soul destroying
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Because of my lack of self esteem and i worry if i say something stupid infront of people and dont know what questions to ask them, i find it easier if i look them up online to find out what theyre interested in. Its not in a malicious way it just makes me feel more at ease
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The 1 thing that puzzles me is how others make friends so easily but i dont think are bery nice people. One girl i told my secret to blabbed to someone else, another made really bitchy comment s to me and is a troll online, another put her headphones in so i can't speak to her and she judges people for not smoking /drinking yet theyve got loads of mates?
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Maybe you're just trying the wrong type of people. If they talk to you do you always respond? You seem like a nice woman.
Yes because i dont get out much. I can't be fussy
What do you usually talk about
Usual stuff, chit chat. As i said i find It hard asking questions i just go along with what they're saying
When you ask questions it makes it seem like you're more interested in the person
I know, i just worry it comes out stupid
I'll be going out soon. If you want to chat later I'll talk to you. I'll help you get more involved in the conversation
There are no stupid questions.
Is this girls, or guys, and are you gay straight or bit
Both i guess. I got along with one guy but he didn't accept my request online just cancelled it. He spoke to me first like so its confusing. Im not fussed about gender or age on eho i make driends with, and im the type od person who sees people for people And not what they are, the only thing that slightly fazes me is people trying to change their gender. I chat to everyone and anyone
So you think that if you're a man you should remain a man, and if you're a female you should remain a female?
Its not that that i think if people want to its their choice, it just freaks me out a little
But I've never spoken about this IRL
You should. Don't go anon. if you're going to voice your opinion. You know, DON'T BE A COWARD
Noones asked for my opinion lol
A lot of my issues is I've not been around a lot of different types of people to get used to it. So thats y it freaks me out
Yeah, but you can't just say it, anon. and expect it to be ok
I think its fair to be a little freaked out of someone wanting to chsnge their gender. Men literally wanting periods?
Well, they can of course decide to just not have kids, and get a hysterectomy
how do you act
As i said, always friendly and chatty
It depends what you talk about what your interests are with the people
Usual atuff
I don’t know depends how you look
Well i dont know why prople should be shallow just because im. Not like other girls. How will i ever improve if people dont want to knoe me
I don’t know I know nothing about you. I’m just trying to get to the bottom of it. Why nobody wants to be around you
They always seem friendly to me. When we meet but then dont suggest anything. On the guy i liked he actually initiated talking to me first and due to my low self esteem when it comes to people in general i fell for him hard. It makes it harder to trust people
Try Christian mingle dating site
I can't do online dating cos i can barely do online social chat either.
Why just meet on there then take it to the phone
People wouldn't look twice at me with my picture. I am easier going face to face
That’s probably why you’re having issues meeting people because you’re so down on yourself people can tell and get the vibe off of it
I always try to act confident and smiley though.
And how will i improve in my confidence if i can't make friends. Catch 22
Well, you certainly can type well find some friends on here and get some confidence
Yeah im fine typing, but after a while even online people stop talking to me.
Keep working on it