Is it likely my friend will find out her boyfriend cheated with me?

[Anonymous]

I'm single by the way. We're all in our last year of HS. They've been dating for nearly 2 years now but he's been cheating with me for 4 months.

Last week was a close one. Luckily the front door was locked and by the time he answered, I was already hiding in the basement, inside a large storage chest. I want to stop but it's like we get drawn into this. Is it likely she'll find out?

[MementoMori777]

The truth always comes to light at some point, you already planted the seed, all it takes is for it to bloom

[Asker]

Then my reputation will likely be ruined.

[MementoMori777]

Yep most likely, and you'll lose a friend, you'll have several rumors spread about you not just one, even false ones and you'll have trouble not only friend trusting you around their lover but getting friends in general and let's not speak how it will effect your dating life, once you have that whore title it's like a long lasting rash, people wouldn't even give you a chance even if you really love someone which is where I believe it will sting the most when you really fall for a guy and he find out this behavior and he just gets turned off by it and it changes the way he sees you.

[MementoMori777]

Let's not forget about the good ol natural justice, I wouldn't be surprised if the guy you fall in love with falls for your friend at the time

[Bricealan]

Yes, she will find out and likely will sew your pussy shut with piano wire... or cut off your nipples... maybe even your clitoris! Beware!

[Asker]

I just hope he keeps his mouth shut about this. I won't snitch on him but he better not rat on me.

[Asker]

If my rep goes down, I'll make him pay for it. I'm not sinking alone in this. If I sink then he has to sink with me.

[Bricealan]

Well, I will never tell... my lips are sealed. Hell... you are very young... have what sex you want to have but be discreet... good luck

[Asker]

Thank you. At this moment, I don't want a boyfriend nor love. I'm not ready for this mushy (oh ''the love of my life''), drama thing.

[Bricealan]

At this point in your life, you are probably just exploring and not wanting anything that will cause you grief... I will get a lot of BS from others with that, but I had a real emotional break up with a girl 16 when I was 19 and she dumped me when I went into the military, guess you could say my first broken heart... She was a little doll, and we had sex a few times, and she had had sex before that probably at 15... Anyway,,,,, she 'ran away" with another military guy and got pregnant... and I saw her a couple years later and she must have weighed 250 lbs and was pregnant I believe...
For god's sake do not make that same mistake ! We are cautioned about discussing sex with minors, but this conversation is not in that vein... and I only caution you to not do something thoughtlessly that will compromise the rest of your young life... Deal?

[SnowedIn]

She will find out.

They always do.

Stop now and maybe you have a chance.

[Asker]

Yeah I'm going to put a stop to this. Hopefully he keeps his mouth shut about it. If I go down, then I'll make him go down too. I hate it when only the girl's reputation gets tainted, as if she's placed on higher standard to be some saint or something. He's as much to blame in this too.

[SnowedIn]

Good for you! Good choices.

And, unfortunately, you're right about guys/girls and standards. 😥

[DaveJord]

Yes, she will probably find out. But who cares.

[Asker]

I care. My reputation will likely be ruined, everything then gets spread out in social medias and I'll likely lose a couple mutual friends too.

[DaveJord]

Well, if that really mattered to you then you would have stopped long ago. regardless of if they know you or not, you are that person.

[Anonymous]

It's very likely, and I hope she does find out.

[Asker]

Then I'm screwed. My rep gets ruined, it gets spread through my FB and other accounts. What if I stop, pretend it didn't happen and tell him to keep quiet about it?