this morning my friend told me she hooked up with Tim, a guy from my English class, at a party last night. Tim has a girlfriend, a very nice and sweet and pretty girlfriend. I feel bad that she is getting cheated on and want to tell her. if I was getting cheated on and someone else knew I would want them to tell me. I want to say something so then she can make the decision of whether or not she wants to stay with Tim. it could break up their relationship but that might be a good thing since Tim is a cheater and a liar. should I tell her?
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Anyone who tells you not to get involved, has either cheated on someone or is the one with the person whose cheated. Or it's just that they have no heart or self respect for other humans. Otherwise they wouldn't allow another person, who doesn't deserve it...to be hurt or disrespected in such a way. If you know something, it's your responsibility to say something. Just like in the legal system, you can get in just as much trouble for knowing a crime was committed and lying or withholding information, even if you didn't commit the crime. You are aiding and abiding that person in continuing to commit that crime. It's not as severe as a criminal act, but it's still a shame and disgraceful behavior. If you know and you have any kind of heart, I'd tell her. Now whether she believes you or not is not your problem. Just tell her & if she chooses not to believe it, just step away from the situation. I've done this before and the girlfriend chose to not believe me. But I did my part by telling her and that's all I care about.0