Is it considered to be gay/lesb if u act childish with ur female friends..[I am a female btw]?

[Anonymous]

I am typically called out as childish or immature for my age.. and mostly i show that side of mine when i am with my besties.. last day a senior, just called me out as lesb[that too in a weird, dirty way] in front of a lot of students, just because i was holding my frnds hand and being myself... i was pretty close to my frnd, like why should I keep so much distance from my bestie... so if thats the case i still don't get why she called me lesb for that fact..

note: i am not saying i hate LGBTQ or anything,[ i respect ur perspective]

i am just asking my concern related how things are escalating these days...

[hahahmm]

You look suspect in a world where the percentage of young people claiming to be abnormal (homosexual/lesbian/transgender) is exploding as never seen before in human history. This is similar to the percentage of fat people. When my parents were kids it was very rare to see a fat person. So rare that people would pay to see one at the circus. Even when I was a kid it was very, very rare but the circus was dying out. Now you just have to walk down the street to see fat people, people with blue hair, people covered in tats, women with beards, women who think they are dudes, men with female breasts & so on.

[In_Trance]

Do you know what a lesbian is?
Because I don't think that you do

[provokeesmokee]

No.

Unless your "being childish" looks like making out with your female friends.

At which point I'm more worried about wtf your childhood was like than upset your bully is misusing "gay".

I think they're just being a stupid teen. There's not even anything wrong with being a lesbian. I'm gay myself.

Just ignore them. Or kiss your friend on her cheek (with her permission) and be like "yea that's right. We're in lesbians."

But it's on you if that awakens anything in ya, lol.

[Asker]

i see.. thank you

[Asker]

my childhood wasn't filled with misusing other genders into play... so yea i am getting quite a bit upset...
its okay if i am the one being bullied for the fact.. but i don't want my friend to be in the mess...
so i am quite more concerned about her than myself...
thanks for ur answer by the way, i just needed to hear smthg to fix smthg else

[PBandJ_Nerd]

No. You're only a lesbian if you're only attracted to other women.

[Anonymous]

Just mean you're immature and not relationship material.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Only if you're sexual with them.