If you had an abusive aunt that was verbally and potentially physical to your mom would you fight her for your mom?

[Anonymous]

Or because she's older you would stay quiet?

For me if she tried cussing out my mom I would put her in her place and she's been physically with my mom before. Slapping her. If she ever tried that ish again she would be seeing stars from me.

My mom stays quiet and doesn't defend herself and my aunt is a bully

Also if she tried my grandma I would do the same

What would you do? She's in her 60s but is capable enough

[boggboss]

Would never be in a situation like that no way a aunt would try that shit with me in the picture

[Asker]

But just say she did. Would you protect your mom?

[Asker]

When it first happened I was 2 or 3 years old. She's been verbally abusive until I was 13 and they haven't spoken since. That was over 15 years ago. There is a chance they're going to see each other at a family reunion. Now I'm older I'm preparing myself

[boggboss]

I dont think u are understanding it wouldn't be allowed to be a thing she would not be able to vist my yard or my mother their is no way I would watch someone hit my mother and I have no need to defend verbal comments

[Asker]

It didn't happen at our house. A hair salon, at my grandmothers house

[Asker]

And at my grandmothers house*

[boggboss]

Then I would tell her I would kick her shit in if I ever saw her try that shit or better yet report her to the police

[Asker]

Even if she's your moms sister and she's older. Because my other aunts said I'd be bad to talk back to my aunt but she's been horrible to my mom. Even if she's saying something to my mom and not being physically I would still cuss her back. I don't think it would be disrespectful

[boggboss]

I dont see what age or family have to do with it like I said I wouldn't make a comment if it was just talking as if ur mum won't speak up for herself and u do it for her u run the chance of having her annoyed at u which would be just as bad

[Asker]

My mom is really quiet, my mum wouldn't mind either she told me that. My aunts on the other hand. They mind

[boggboss]

Fuck them lol they ain't my mum

[boggboss]

If they are willing to let it happen they are just as bad

[Asker]

She doesn't stick up for herself that's the thing. My mom would just take it and I couldnt sit there and watch that

[Asker]

They would say something but they don't want me to because she's my aunt. But they would just say stop and she wouldn't listen to them anyway. If I said something she would stop. I can be scary when I'm angry 😂

[boggboss]

Meh🤷🏽‍♂️

[OddBeMe]

I have an abusive gma who I love watching abuse my abusive mother. They are exactly alike but my mother comes to me afterward and complains about the same damn things I do about her.

[Celticwolf78]

I would definitely stand up to her for my mom

[Asker]

Just say she was only verbally abusive. Would you still cuss her back. My other aunts think I'm bad for considering talking back to my aunt but even if she wasn't physical and only verbal I would still cuss her back. Just because she's my mom's sister and she's older I'm not wrong for sticking up for my mom

[Celticwolf78]

Hell yeah I would

[Agape93]

Nope

[Asker]

Why not?

[Agape93]

I don't give a shit about her.

[Asker]

Well that's nice.