How do I get my girlfriend to wrestle for me?

[Anonymous]

I told her how much girl wrestling turns me on and I asked her friend and her to wrestle for me. Her friend agreed, but my girlfriend didn't want to wrestle. I was really mad at her. Watching girls wrestle is my biggest turn on and she knows it, yet she doesn't want to wrestle for me. Should I dump her? She knows it turns me on very much when one girl dominates the sh*t out of the weaker girl (headscissor, facesitting, forced submission, schoolgirlpin...) and I guess she's afraid I won't be attracted to her after the fight is over. I told her that's not the case and she still doesn't want to wrestle. How do I convince her to wrestle for me?

[wivvygrace]

She's probably a bit self conscious about it.. Personally, I don't know if I would do it.

Some girls are too shy to put on a show for someone, that's just the way it is. Even if she knows it turns you on, she could just be too uncomfortable with either wrestling, putting on a show for you, or even the fact that there would be another girl involved that would have your attention.

You seriously just asked if you should dump her for not wrestling for you, and if you're seriously considering breaking up with her because she's too shy to do one thing that turns you on, both of you could find more suitable partners.

Also, how long have you been with her? She may just feel it's too soon to be putting on a show like that for you.

I don't think she's worried about you not being attracted to her.

She could also be very uncomfortable with "facesitting and forced submission," especially if she isn't into girls. Quite frankly, I wouldn't do it for you either.

[digmelovebug]

Maybe she feels uncomfortable with doing it with a friend, maybe you should ask her to wrestle with you? My boyfriend wanted me to wrestle with my friend I said no so he asked me to wrestle with him which is much more comfortable :)

[slipslender]

you can't. she doesn't want to wrestle, you can't force her to. if it's such a big deal to you, then I guess you do need to break up with her.

[Asker]

I told her I don't mind if she loses! What the f*** is her problem? I don't expect her to wrestle nude. I don't even expect her to fight in a bikini. I just love to watch to girls wrestle for dominance. It is so sexy. A good girfriend should try to make her boyfriend happy. What do you think is the reason she doesn't want to wrestle? Do you think she's afraid to lose?

[slipslender]

i think she's just uncomfortable with the idea. it's great to make a boyfriend happy...but not at the risk of one's comfort zones.

[wivvygrace]

She's not afraid to lose, she's not afraid of you not being attracted to her anymore, she just DOESN'T WANT TO DO IT.

Stop being such a juicehead trying to make her do something she doesn't want to do. You don't like her because she won't wrestle for you, do her a favor and break up with her because she can do better than you.

Wrestling can't be the ONLY thing your girlfriend can do that turns you on. Watch p*rn or something if it's that big of a deal.

[toulouse]

"A good girfriend should try to make her boyfriend happy." Not at her own detriment. if you are willing to break up over it, it means you yourself, are not prepared to sacrifice comfort, so why do you expect her to sacrifice w/e it s she gets out of NOT doing it?

she is not you, she does not like it, to her its uncomfortable. just like to you not getting it is uncomfortable, you are DIFFERENT people.

a good partner, does not pressure their parter-esp not under threat. you are really immature.

[BluMac81]

Ya know, if she isn't willing to do the things that are a turn on to you, or vice versa, you're just going to look for satification from other girls who will wrestle for you or with you, so this could be a deal breaker. The question is, whether you want to wait it out and try to convince her to do this for you, or maybe get closer in your relationship so that she doesn't get so worried about you leaving her. As a fellow mixed wrestling/facesitting fetishist, I know how it is, I love the fetish more than sex, and any woman I'm with for the long-run would have to be willing to do it.

[WeaponZero]

If your girlfriend feels odd or awkward trying to cater to some fetish you have, you should respect that and it's certainly no reason to be mad at her or angry.

[Icky123]

maybe you could get into it by talking about fetishes or what turns you on, ask her what she likes maybe try it and maybe she'll do the same for you.

[toulouse]

HE TOLD HER IT TURNS HIM ON.

[Icky123]

alright chill out.

[Anonymous]

Hahaha if my boyfriend asked me to wrestle I'd say no too. And considering breaking up with her over it makes you selfish. If she's not comfortable with it, you just need to accept it.

[Asker]

why wouldn't you wrestle for you bf? are you a coward? afraid to lose? what's so bad about wrestling with your bff?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not afraid to lose or a coward. But I wouldn't care about winning either. It's a stupid situation altogether. A wrestling fetish? Give me a break lol.

[Asker]

is it weird that I love to watch girls wrestle? hmmm... I think it's normal to get horny when 2 hot girls wrestle for dominance. wouldn't it turn you on if your boyfriend wrestled for you?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. He's a fighter by nature, I've seen him fight one of his friends whom was trying to hit on me. It didn't turn me on at all.

[hateidiots]

You are such a selfish, sick puppy. SHE should dump you, and I hope she does soon and you never get another girlfriend. Wrestling is not for everybody and she could get hurt anyway, but you don't care, do you? All that matters is your stupid fetish. Guys like you are a shame for all mankind.

[Hartmut]

She clearly doesn't want to, so why do you feel justified in trying to force her? Sounds kinda selfish to me

If it bothers you so much, then maybe you SHOULD move on.

[sleeperlover]

Maybe her friend has a friend who would be willing... Maybe you and your girlfriend could watch them wrestle. It might get her to consider it. Worth a try.

[kheserthorpe]

BTW, is it more of a turn on if she wins or loses?

[ruwyns]

Question: Why Do You Need Her To Do This?