Why Are some pple bad when it feels so good to be good and make others happy?

[Amel2333]

[Andres77]

Usually they are broken and didn’t handle it well.

I looked for the clip. I can’t find it.
if you watch the movie, The Cell with Jennifer Lopez and Vince Vaughn.

its a perfect contrast between how the abused redirect their trauma. One became a serial killer and another dedicated his life to saving victims.

for all the goofy stuff Vince Vaughn has acted in, this is the one movie that solidified him as a class actor for me. I completely identified with him.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/MngFXat6sgs

[Anonymous]

It varies some people are paying it forward. And by that I mean the pain they're feeling. And some people are just miserable people. I try to remind myself when somebody is rude or short with me that I only had to deal with them for a few minutes. They have be around them 24/7. And then I try to remember to smile because life is truly a gift. And you can turn somebody's day around with a well timed smile.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Everyone has experienced life differently, not everyone is aware of their effect on others, everyone does not have the same upbringing. A kid that grew up impoverished is obviously going to have a different worldview than someone born to a millionaire father and mother. While you experience joy by being good to others, don’t assume that people who bring misery to others do so on purpose. No one wants to be a bad guy, we’re all just made differently.

[MementoMori777]

Because they are at a level of misery that they don't know how to handle those negative emotions so their way of dealing with it is by making others feel bad too

[Grovermint]

A lot of people have it bad enough where it's the only thing they can do, others don't have empathy.

[jahaims]

You are only looking at life through your personal point of view. Not everyone thinks and feels the same as you.

[Anonymous]

Attitude has a lot to do with this, and how a person was raised does too.