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My best friend I used to go out with her and her friend suddenly stopped inviting me and I suspect that her friend talks behind my back but I never did anything to her, (I consider myself very attentive and I always help my best friend). Today I found out that my best friend went out with her friend and she hid her story from me, I really don't know why she did it and I didn't expect it from her because we are very close (or we were). Why do you think she did it, or what advice would you give me to feel better?💔
(sorry if my English is not very good, it's not my main language)
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Hmmm it would seem your intuition is correct. Her friend and maybe even your friend were/are talking shit about you behind your back. Why?🤔 fuck if I know. I've seen girls tend to hate other girls for random reason. Like it could be a guy she likes liked you for example. Or it could be that her friend pointed out something weird about you and started talking shit. And then your bestfriend was convinced and then didn't like you either. I've seen this happen to girls a lot
How do you make yourself feel better? Well now that's the million dollar question. Well first off I'd you're SURE your bestfriend isn't your friend anymore then I say cut off all contact with her. It's kinda like a break up. But this time with a friend. The less you see them the less you'll think about them. But as I said, only if you're sure. Csuse we could be wrong here. Because after all we are only going off of intuition here.
Oh and as go why she would hide her stories from you. Thats simple. It's because she doesn't want you seeing what she's doing with her. For whatever reason. But the reason doesn't matter all that does matter is that she's hiding it from you
I really don't know what to do with her, I think I should get some new friends and leave her behind. But in some situations I have felt that she used me when we went out or that with her friend they left me aside. I think that her friend could have talked about me behind my back because I always felt something strange about her, I noticed that she was distant from me and I also found out that she has spoken ill of other friends. But I didn't expect that she was going to hide her story from me or ignore me like she did, we were very close and I always took her into account, I think that in order to hide her story from me, she already knew it was wrong.
Lol. You're English is of native quality.
Best will in the world, I'd guess she and her new friend feel you don't fit into their tribe. Maybe they got bored with you, maybe they don't like your competition, maybe there was some perceived slight, maybe she find you plus other friend don't work for her. Who knows.
But she's uncomfortable with it, perhaps embarrassed, and does want to readily confess to you.
I guess I'd not make a big thing about it but make it clear you know, not a problem, where do you and she stand?
If she's honest with herself, maybe she'll tell you what's going on. If not, you'll just have to run with it. Or not.
wow thanks, I didn't believe that about my English, my main language is Spanish lol. Well, I feel very confused, because today my friend spoke to me (by text) as if nothing happened. And I don't know what to do with her, because I'm tired of feeling out of the group, and of her rejecting my plans to go out when she later goes out with her other friends. And I know that if I tell her, she'll make an excuse or pretend nothing happened. Or I would look like I'm obsessed with her and that's why I was stalking her to see if she would post something without me. I think I should get away from her a bit and not take her so much into account, and talk to her less, maybe…
Yes, there's more power for you in stepping back a little. She's putting you in an difficult position. Leave the door open but otherwise amuse yourself and maybe find a new playmate.
Forget about best friend, she's not even your friend now.
I think it's going to be hard for me to realize that, because she was my best friend. But I started noticing her that way when a few months ago she asked me out a few times but she always did it late (like an hour before the plan), as if she hadn't really taken me into account. And I started to think that I might have been exaggerating, but I can't see why she kept her story from me, I really didn't think she was going to do something like that to me. My sister told me to ignore her and make new friends..
She asked you out an hour before cause she didn't want to go with you but someone else. But since that person couldn't go she took you. Your sister is right. Look for new friends before this so called best friend hurts you
It's true you're right, you made me realize that she doesn't deserve to be called my friend and I also felt in some other situations that she used me. Thank you very much, tips like yours help me a lot in my situation, I wish you good luck in life <33
I'm glad! And it's really sweet of you Maddie 😊. I wish the same for you as well ✨️