Is it normal not to have many friends?

[catarecute]

i feel that maybe i am weird as i dont like socialising and i love being alone. everytime i make a friend i feel traped in the relationship and drifts away from them. i am not sure how normal that is. the only people i like are my family and this one sociopath who is stalking me.

[Mynameisbobby]

I have one good friend and my girlfriend. I used too feel trapped in friendships I felt like I was forcing it. People always thought I was weird and that bothered me especially in middle school being bullied for being quiet and just wanting to be left alone.

[Sweetsurprize]

Yeah unfortunately. Lots of people are rather judgmental. They are also busy with their own families, children, parents, significant others, etc. especially as you reach adulthood and middle adulthood, you will notice that. Women are ALSO usually very competitive with each other and would rather spend time getting closer to her man so that she can get that ring on her finger finally and in a year or so, probably get pregant with her first child or do it backwards.

Such is life.

Late answer but I don't care.

[CrimsonAngel09]

I only have two best friends, that's good enough. I couldn't imagine keeping up with like 10 people.

[catarecute]

i must be insane as i make the same mistake again and again. is it insanity or is it sanity. if you don't get why something that should logically work isn't working. it is sane to keep trying.

[Skull_Anon]

Nope

It's feels good to be in the Alone and Dangerous gang!

[catarecute]

what dangerous gang? you mean the sociopath. he isn't dangerous. he is sweet deep inside himself. he needs to turn to god to expel any demons from his life. i believe he can still save himself. He needs to get out of organised cult and walk in nature alone and find himself. not all hope is lost for him.

[Skull_Anon]

Yes there is hope!

[serious]

Yes of course it is very normal. I never had any friends either so it is totally fine.

[Anonymous]

Some people force that lifestyle onto themselves. It is not healthy.

[catarecute]

why is it not healthy if i am happy that way.

[Jkgordon]

Yes because friends are rare most people are phony