Adult children of divorced parents, how did it feel when you first heard your father dating someone same age as you or younger?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

When you first heard of it, Did it confuse and creep you out and change your opinion about him as well as men, generally?

I am allowing Anonymous answers so you can answer truthfully instead if trying to be cool.

My dad is still in live with my mom, I an asking because I came across similar post on Reddit, where daughters were sharing their confusion.

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It’s not a question regarding the judgement of age gap relationships, it’s just a question related to the feelings that adult children come across while hearing of these news.

[nastyb]

I would think my father is just being a pervert. I have enough experience in dating to know that when a man dates a significantly younger woman, 95% of the time, it is because he's just pursuing her for her beauty, not love. Some perverted guys out there would do absolutely anything to fuck a hot girl.

Thankfully, my dad isn't a pervert. he's married to a woman around his own age.

[Anonymous]

my dad had a sugar baby for a couple months. i was 12 this and she was like 28 and honestly… i totally supported her in taking all my dad’s money. if she were younger tho it would have been weird. i also have an iffy relationship with my dad, have since my parents got divorced so…

[Masterodd]

Way to go Dad!!! but she's a golddigger, immature, uneducated, has no career, and no life skills. (read other post)

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Who?

[nastyb]

most of the time, when a younger woman is dating a much much older man, its usually all just infatuation. These relationships rarely ever tend to last.

[exitseven]

It was really messed up. She was 5 years older than me. I was really embarrassed by it all.

[exitseven]

THanks for the MHO😎

[nastyb]

You probably would've done the same

[Anemone978]

My dad isn't a pedo so he would never date someone my age he sticks to people in his own age group.. but if he did I would tell him my thoughts LOL

[laraWM]

My mom has a new husband and it was very hard at the beginning and when we realized he was going to stay here forever. Especially he's not a good man

[Anonymous]

Didn't happen to me but I just know my dad would have done it given the opportunity. I would cut contact the minute I saw her. Still ended up cutting him off, men like that just find a way to ruin their families.

[Sonorous]

I'm black so we don't have dads

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am confused.

[Sonorous]

They all went to go get milk
https://youtu.be/-O_YC15dIPc?si=8RdAp7eXpqf3QVMx

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Ouch… Sorry.

Didn’t know that was a thing over there 😳

Have you watched 5th episode of V?

[Sonorous]

Oh I'm joking 🤣 about the milk thing. But yeah I really don't have a father tho.

And yeah I already watched it. I like that I was just as confused as them at times 🤣

[jeffend888]

You say this as if it’s a normal and common occurrence.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't have an issue with it. If anything, I'd imagine it'd be exciting, make him feel alive. I'd be glad he's happy.

[Anonymous]

I though good for him.

[Awantika03]

V bad 👎

[YAsQuen]

good on him.