Setting boundaries with my sisters husband's and bfs?

[Anonymous]

I had to set some boundaries with my sisters due to their husband's and bfs constant drama , drama, and drama. It's always drama with their husband's and bfs and my family doesn't understand why I chosen to separate myself from my sisters because I ask how the kids are doing and it's straight to their men problems. Even when I call and ask how they're doing , they're centered around men 24/7 plus taking on the burdens of their husband's and bfs. I don't date men and don't feel like I give my sisters advice on their relationship and marriage problems. I tried setting boundaries with my sisters and moving forward, but it's back to the same old drama - is it possible for me to have a relationship with my sisters under these conditions? My mother - our mom takes on these loads and unnecessary stress.

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+1 y

Yes I am gay and don't date men

[laly520]

just dont get into their drama or personal life
n focus on ur bond with em

[Asker]

I don't have a bond with them because they can't stop centering their lives around men - I stopped calling them because it's about their husband's and boyfriend problems

[Asker]

The only way I know how they are is through my mom

[laly520]

ever tried to ask em to stop doing so?

[Asker]

Yes , they don't respect boundaries or anything I say

[Asker]

Unfortunately, I had to separate myself from them

[laly520]

better keep distance then

[Asker]

Yep.. what I chosen to do

[Anonymous]

Why do you not date men? Are you lesbian? Don't date anyone?