For guys, we rather sleep on the floor than sleep on the same bed with our male friend.
What harm could be done, whatever those ladies do or not in the same bed? The notion what is normal depends on culture, traditions, education, prejudices, etc. As far as I know and heard, girls have less problems sleeping in the same bed as guys, without being homosexual. But then, even if girls share the same bed and have some intimate fun or not, it's no one else's business in the sense that it's their intimacy and their choice.
According my own experience as man, at the border school and at the armee, all guys shared the same sleeping room, but all had their own bed. Sure there are some rare exceptions, during treks for instance, but even then, all have their own sleeping bag.
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Bro just keep your socks on and you can sleep next to a dude.
I've done it and did not wake up liking men.
In my experience, yes. Sisters tend to both sleep in the same bed at times as well as snuggle up together frequently. I don’t have sisters but for women without a sister, our closest female friends serve in that capacity. I snuggle up with my 2 best girlfriends all the time and have frequently experienced girl group-snuggles. Just look at pictures of girls together or movies and notice how much physical closeness and touching is going on.
Lost count at how many times I've had to share a bed with a friend. Pretty normal in my book.
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Absolutely, it's perfectly normal for female friends to sleep in the same bed under various circumstances, such as during sleepovers, travel, or after a late night at a friend's house. Sharing a bed is often simply a matter of convenience, but it also indicates a high level of trust and comfort within the friendship. It provides an opportunity for friends to catch up and bond before drifting off to sleep, making an unfamiliar environment feel more homey and secure.
Culturally, this practice can differ, but it's generally accepted across many societies. In these instances, sharing a bed is seen purely as a platonic act that can strengthen the bond between friends. It's reminiscent of childhood sleepovers, where part of the excitement included sharing a space and stories late into the night. For adults, this can bring a nostalgic element to friendships, enhancing emotional connections and reinforcing the closeness that these relationships bring.
It depends on the situation. If you’re traveling and stuck at a hotel that doesn’t have “doubles” rooms then it’s basically logical and considerate to share, but if you’re in a space with options (someone’s home, etc.) then no, it’s not standard.
Ehh... WTF, guys will sleep in a tent with 10 other guys if needs be. Girls too.
You must be one of those gamma males who think everything is "gay" if you don't like it.
Yes, my female friend slept in the same bed as me for 4 months.
Very normal. Also I have seen male friends doing so as well.
Yeah it's normal IF NECESSARY and I wouldn't have any problems sharing bed with friend or relatives if space was tight. Commence the "That's gay" bullshit in 3... 2... 1... 🖕🏻
Yeah. I've slept in the same bed with so many of my friends.
I never slept in the same bed as my female friends.
It is and me and my guy friends would sleep in the same bed growing up. I think that is an older generation thing to think it is weird.
Yeah, I think its normal and very common too.
Yeah, my friend and I sleep in the same bed all the time when I’m over at her house or if we’re traveling together.
yes we do that all the time
Yes, it’s normal.
My sister and her friends have
Oh yeah, it's definitely normal.
Hmmm 😏 🧐
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