What makes some people nasty to others?

[HappyWoman34]

[blueonblack22]

Usually because:

• They hate themselves and it’s projection. I notice bbw women are prone to being more nasty (definitely not all but many).
• They got someone else being nasty to them and they think its okay to do it someone else. Hurt people hurt people is understandable but at the same bullshit way to deal with it.
• They are scared/threatened/insecure and are compensating for it.
• They are sociopaths and have no empathy. These types are very push pull with being charming/abusive/manipulative.
• They are angry about something that’s out of their control and/or not easy to control that puts them at a disadvantage in society. Similar to bbw girls I find that people who are not societally “attractive” are more nasty. Short guys are more feisty. People who come from disadvantaged backgrounds can be like this too.

But the world will give you back what you put out. Nasty people might enjoy some temporary benefits given the false feeling of “power” they get from bullying people. But they won’t ever be trusted.

[D_Bone_Steak]

It's usually because they're pussies and they're getting cucked in some way in life. They're miserable and actually really sad as a living organism.

That's one thing, but it's how they respond to that. I mean the world could be shitting on them and if they came to me explaining that issue in a logical fashion, I'd probably empathize and try to suggest solutions or mindsets to combat it.

But if they come at me talking a bunch of bullshit, calling me names, and basically making shit up to try and make me as miserable as them. What kind of response you think they'll get out of me? My opening statement right here is the perfect example of how I might respond to them.

[northerngal]

Good question. I have personally noticed that so many people seem to be very angry right now. We seem to have lost respect and empathy for others. Something in our society has changed...

[WhitneySnow]

Negativity usually. They are in a bad mood because of something that happened to them and they take it out on others.

[AhemAhemAhem]

Why are you spending so much time on this site writing random questions? Do you think this might be some kind of coping mechanism for a difficult time you are going through? Nothing wrong with that if so, we all need to cope, but it does make someone like me wonder if you need some help or guidance.

[HappyWoman34]

Good question. Pure boredom and an enjoyment of discussions.

[EmisElite]

Here we go.

They are unhappy and have too many internal problems that can't fixed or solved.

These type of people are destructive with incurable bitterness and happiness.

And this is why they are nasty to others.

Note: No amount of love, caring, or sacrifice can change their nasty/destructive behavior. If you are in relationship with this type of person, RUN...

[OfMiceandMen]

People who live in their own little world and don't consider how their actions can impact others.

[Jennz6]

The way that they were raised by their parents

[Kingofkings1992]

That’s only partially true. a persons upbringing Only affects their behavior to a certain extent. Not everything can be blamed on the parents

[Jennz6]

@Kingofkings1992 are you a parent? You seem defensive

[Kingofkings1992]

no not a parent. I’m not defensive, it’s just my opinion

[Saggitariusdiva]

Self hate, frustration, Anger, resentment, insecurity and inferiority...

[ProbablyClueless]

Insecurity, from what I've seen. It really seems like insecurity and ego are pretty much the most destructive forces in the world.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

People have major issues in their brain, sorry if this has been happening to you.

[Kingofkings1992]

Nasty people are a product of the circumstances of existence in the world. No one is unpleasant by nature…. they are molded into this state through their environment and not feeling like they are being treated justly.

[SotiCoto]

99% of people are complete shit. Nastiness is what they deserve.

[jahaims]

Everyone is different so it would depend on the person and context

[LiamS95]

Their own demons, insecurities and disappointments.

[DrPepper12]

Jealous, angry, hungry...

[Anonymous]

when nastiness is hurled their way first

[Twalli]

Low self esteem

[JBCT75]

Mean minded and selfish behavior..

[Anonymous]

Religion is a common cause

[Anonymous]

Smelly behaviour...

[HappyWoman34]

What kind of smelly behaviour? 😊

[Opinion Owner]

Like not bathing and smells funky all the time...

[maj1nall]

Superiority status