My sister suddenly turned evil?

[Anonymous]

My sister is 34, I’m 28. We used to be very close and had a really good relationship… then she met her husband. I’m not sure was happened but she would walk around my parents house saying she “owned me”, and her husband would join in (I hadn’t met him at this point). During Covid I moved in with my sister and brother in law- I even paid rent. Out of nowhere she would start being abusive to me, screaming out of nowhere. If I didn’t the dishes, I didn’t do them right. If I vacuumed, swiffered or got a glass of water from the kitchen she would start screaming at me and running me down. Then she had a child, allowed the child to touch her husbands penis- so I told her and she was like yeah whatever. After this incident she said “you have 5 minutes to leave my house and never come back”. So I left. She has completely cut me off, my parents off, her husbands parents off- and even told people I was planning to murder her daughter )(who I loved and spoiled).

what the hell is going on?

Updates

1 y

Yes, before anyone asks- CPS has been called on them multiple times. There’s nothing more I can do. Her husband also has 5 rape charges against him. Lost custody of his two other kids- and my sister is his third wife.

[rosemilk]

her relationship/marriage sucks and is struggling. so she has to take it out on someone. and you're there and the easiest to be mean to so she can stop feeling sad about her life because she can just put her emotions on you.

also seems like a complete mental break down of mental issues she has been suppressing since who knows when

[normalice]

Some people just get like that when they realize they are not going to get any bonus time or redos. In her 30s and it sounded like she didn't rally have anything going for her, it makes sense she would throw herself into any opportunity that presented itself - even a crazy husband.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Look I know there are always 2 sides to every story, but based entirely on what I've read up there, She should go to a hardware store and buy herself a broom to fly away on.. That sounds like PURE evil to me and worse still, that kid doesn't stand a chance with parents like that!

[Asker]

I think she is being abused or developing a severe mental illness. Last time I heard she had lost about 70lbs, had another kid, and keeps telling people I’m dangerous and now apparently I have sexually abused her kid. It’s weird and egregious accusations.

[FunkyMonkee]

Join the club!! I've got two of the evil bitches!

[jahaims]

Sounds like she got into drugs or his abuse triggered something mentally

[MasterKS]

She going practical and selfish while you are being fool and dumb!

[MasterKS]

sounds like you are against her husband which is not going well with her.

[FunkyMonkee]

What part of that was foolish?

[MasterKS]

@FunkyMonkee sticking with them when they started such behaviour.

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, maybe she had no other immediate option.