How does it feel to have a miscarriage?

[Simslover92]

That's one of my biggest fears being older and starting out older. I know you're more prone to miscarry when you get pregnant at an older age.

[IslaTheWitch]

it depends... on an early stage it's easier to go through... but when you already saw your child on USG and felt it's movements... it's freaking hard...

I lost my new born daughter... it's hell for parents...

different people react in different ways... my friend's wife visits cementary every single day... they lost their child in 30th week of pregnancy

[Simslover92]

I'm so sorry for your loss. That must have been so very hard.

[IslaTheWitch]

it's in the past, you can't keep people who passed in this world... I let her go...

I have Drama Queen here and I enjoy every day with a moody teenager :D

[Simslover92]

Oh ok. Good for you! Glad you have her!

[IslaTheWitch]

she is the light of my life...

but @Simslover92 don't think too much about it... our minds are strong, and if you worry too much, you can make bad things happen... so... just don't think about it... eat healthily, do sports, visit a doctor regularly for check-ups, and have a lot of positive feelings and hope

[Simslover92]

Ok I will. Thanks!

[Apple1996]

Really painful. Almost similar to giving birth. And sucks so bad emotionally

[Jessikaah91]

I'll tell you my story.. TMI if you don't wanna read..

It's bloody horrible, you and you're body are going through so much. it messes with your emotional and mental health as well as your physical health.. my daughter is 18 months old when I had her I bled for 6 weeks like you're meant too then when she was 2 months old I got the rod implant because I figured I didn't want anymore as of yet because my daughter was only young.. anyway one day I'm sitting in mine and my partner's room I start feeling really strong pain, I explained it to my partner as contraction type pain anyway I was like I'll go sit on the toilet maybe that's the issue.. I'm sitting there and all of a sudden I start bleeding blood clots everywhere I was like wtf is happening I had absolutely no idea, I'm bleeding and going through really bad pain, I was like it can't be my monthlys because being on the rod implant one side effect is no period so I thought that's why I didn't have one.. anyway the baby came out I was in so much shock I start crying and literally almost passing out my partner laid me on the floor in lounge room because I couldn't make it to the bedroom as I passed out anyway after I laid for abit I went back to the bathroom still bleeding came back and almost passed out again laid back down then I ended up making it to the bedroom and laid in bed, my partner was my rock and my biggest support person, I couldn't have gotten through anything without him there by my side.. I was feeling sick and passing out for days people told me I should have gone to hospital but I didn't. I had no symptoms that I was pregnant only the no bleeding but I thought that was the rod, anyway clearly it wasn't working so I got that taken out to let my cycle go back to normal then not long after i got it taken out I got pregnant again made it to 39 weeks then got rushed to hospital because I started bleeding thought I was gonna have another miscarriage (stillbirth) I lost 3.5L of blood and had a placenta abruption so they took her out via emergency c section saved her life as well as mine (we both nearly died) it's been a crazy year that's for sure. But definitely never thought I'd ever have one let alone ever experience both of what I have so I've been so up and down emotionally due to everything that has happened and I wouldn't wish it apon my worst enemy.

[Simslover92]

Wow I'm so sorry that happened to you. Thank you so much for giving your story. I appreciate it so much.

[AviatorTom]

Having a miscarriage is very sad, one of the saddest things I've ever experienced. My then-wife and I had two miscarriages early in our marriage. What's important is to support each other, and realize a miscarriage is not that unusual. It wasn't until we had our first miscarriage that our relatives and friends, including my mother, described their own miscarriage experiences. It was reassuring to learn that many women have miscarriages, and that it's not the end of the world.

Many pregnancies go just fine, while others do not. Don't fear getting pregnant. My then-wife and I didn't give up after our miscarriages. We went to genetic counseling and ultimately had three healthy children.

[Simslover92]

Thanks for sharing! I will try not to fear getting pregnant.

[LazerBean]

I hope it will never happen, but I know several couples who have been devastated by it. Make sure your man is as healthy as possible, because men 35 are more likely to have children miscarried or go through other complications.

[Simslover92]

Ok I will, thanks! I hope it never happens either.

[Kelly6]

@Simslover92 very sad moment for a women, mostly when it happens later

[Simslover92]

Oh ok. I imagine it would be very sad. I hope to never go through that.

[ariadneR]

Painful as fuck.

I had one at 23

[Simslover92]

I'm so sorry.

[ariadneR]

Thanks love

[Anonymous]

It feels shitty and you never forget it.