I listened to my mom and my hair fell put again, what do I do?

I mentioned in a earlier post that I suffer from hair loss, not patchy just on one side my edges are thin. So basically my mom who has a whole different hair type told me to brush my hair so it can grow even after I told her 3 times that it'll pull out my hair, which she responded with "Who told you that who are you listening to on the internal?" So eventually she pulled the "You're being a rebellious child" card and I was forced to brush my hair and it fell right back out, specially the new growth. I'm genuinely really mad right now, for one, she forces me to go outside with my hair loose for all the world to see, keeps making me put heavy cremes or butters in my hair after again, I told her. it will dry out or pull out my hair and once again she doesn't listen and my hair drys out, I tell her I need shampoo she tells me "no you don't you're just bored." Then proceeds to tell me was my hair with just water. how else did she think my hair fall out the first time? Washing it with just water and leaving it alone as she told me to do cause since she doesn't use hair products that means I can't apparently even after I told her she has high porosity hair and I don't, I have low porosity therefore I have to constantly treat it or else it'll fall out but ofc she doesn't listen AT ALL even after seeing the damage. This is just something to get off my chest ty for listening.

I listened to my mom and my hair fell put again, what do I do?
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