Thoughts about this situation?

[Anonymous]

A few days ago, my mom has told me that we have to move in a hotel for 1 night, since they were about to renovate our bathroom (n we couldn’t access to it) so on the morning that we were supposed to check out for going back at home, she forced me to go to a youth center and says that she will stay at her sister’s house n storing our home’s furnitures so we basically ”moved out”… like that lmao.. since then I’ve been staying at hotels and apartment colocation with strangers, while she still at her sister’s home?

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Im 22, live in Montreal, Canada

[Skinhead-1979]

Your mother is hiding something from you

I've got no clue what, of course, so I am not going to speculate.

But you had to be kept out of the way for a reason

[Skinhead-1979]

Maybe your mother and you have been evicted?

[Asker]

Do u think so?

[Skinhead-1979]

Well, seeing that you've mentioned you are living in hotels and apartment colocation, and your mother with your sister.

There's no reason for that... unless you and your mother have no place to go back to.

[Asker]

She told me that she looking for an apartment

[Skinhead-1979]

Then I fear there is a high chance I may be right... Why else would she be looking for an apartment?

Whatever is going on... She should have told you what's going on. You have a right to know.

[Asker]

Do u think she simply kicked me out since she told me she looking for an appartement for herself lol..

[Skinhead-1979]

Oh that's difficult... I would say "Lets not assume the worst straight away".

It may simply be that she is really embarrassed about the situation and doesn't dare to tell you... and the reason for housing you somewhere else for the time could be so that she can sort things out without you finding out

[Asker]

So u really think that they got us evicted lmao..

[Asker]

And my mom lives with her sister not mine lol.. so my aunt I may have made a mistake while typing..

[Skinhead-1979]

I may well have misread or remembered it... My memory doesn't always work very well; and truth be said, I am also smoking weed now so that makes my memory even worse 😛

It's of course really difficult for me to know what is going on... but yes, based on what you have told me so far this is indeed the assumption I am being left with.

Of course I really hope my assumptions are wrong, nothing serious is going on and everything is alright... but I cannot help having the feeling something is amiss.

[Asker]

Same I think she may have simply wants me to move out out of house and be mature and make my own decisions since I’m a adult but u thinking that we got evicted can be something I think u may be up to something lol!

[Skinhead-1979]

If she would want you to move out because you are old enough there are better ways I'd say 😉

I got kicked out of the house at the age of 19; admittedly I was difficult (my teenage years haven't been easy), but my father's new wife was more important and I guess I was in the way.

I've slept rough for 1 night in a parking garage, and the next day I got offered the sofa at someone's place. Some time after that I got a room in the same house.
Going on my own hasn't been easy, I've had to learn everything the hard way and got into serious debts, but eventually I learned (I didn't really have a choice there either, I was going to have my own family at the age of 29/ 30 so I had to improve).

[Asker]

What could I have been the ”better ways” u think, but now I starts to believe your eviction story actually makes sense.. and if so what are the reason u think I could have been evicted?

[Skinhead-1979]

I really cannot answer that; I'd be just speculating and that really won't help you.

You want answers, you deserve answers, there is only one way to find out and that's ask your mother.

[Asker]

Okok thanks!

[Skinhead-1979]

You are welcome, I wish you all the best 😊

[Asker]

thanks man!

[Staximus]

Call one of your family or friends and ask if you can stay with them