How would you feel if this happened to you?

[Anonymous]

My family (sister, mother, father, nieces and nephews) all booked a holiday for in two weeks without me.

My mother has narcissistic tendancies and we had an argument a week ago. This is when they claim they organised a holiday and booked it. It's booked for six beds and there are six people going.

Not one person told me about this holiday untill yesterday, when my sister "let the cat out the bag" (her words)

They say I can come but all the beds are booked and I wasn't invited either. I wouldn't have wanted to go as my nephew has major behavioural issues, and is spoilt. So at times its unbearable being in his presence and causes me severe anxiety. They know I avoid him at all costs.

It's the fact that this was kept a secret. None of the people told me. I live with two of them and the argument was over days ago. Would anyone else be upset with this?

[melnc]

It's extremely disappointing when such behavior comes from those closest to you, your family, and not someone else. Even though I might not know you... but, that made me feel upset too. Spend better time with those who appreciate you. I am sure that you are meaningful to someone.

[itsannalee]

Yes i’ll be upset.
But we are already 30-35 yo, u are adult. Just book your own vacations, and go without them.


If u are invited in the last minute, don’t go.

[Asker]

I just wanted to see if I was over-reacting so I come on here to clarify. I agree, and I will be doing so. Thank you for the comment.

[EmmaMary]

For fuck's sake Grow Up and start acting your age. smh