Guys, dad's did you give your daughters THE TALK or did there mom do it?

[jenna133355]

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Sexual and love education using books put on my bed by my mother during puberty. And maybe some light talks when I had questions, but I don't really remember them, it's been a while.

Also, a few years later, intensive listening of radio talk shows where the topic of sexuality and romance was abundantly discussed. During late mid school/early hish school.

Which looks similar to what is happening on this platform in fact, while there is a more adult tone sometimes, and sometimes I see adults having teenager level questions, due to lack of education probably, when it's not religious interference.

[ohsheeT]

I did with my son and my daughter..

[jenna133355]

how did that go?

[ohsheeT]

It went good we have a very good. Relationship and of course I had to start it all out saying something stupid or funny.

But the bottom line was with my daughter you have a brain use it if a guy does not want to wear a condom tell him goodbye because if he says he doesn't want to wear a condom that means he doesn't like you and he doesn't want to protect you so take about that one any guy that says he cares about you will want to protect you and you need to do the same thing with the guy you need to protect him you don't want to baby this early in your life so you are the boss of you you are the boss of your body you are the boss of every part of you make sure you're good boss I don't care what you say if you play and you have a baby you're going to have that baby so you better think about that one too

. I just looked at him and said did you hear everything I just said... it all goes double for you.. I said you have a dream if you want to make that dream happen you cannot have kids at this moment time in your life if a girl tells you you don't have to wear a condom you tell her yes you do same thing you're going to protect her and protect yourself because I know you're not ready for a child right now

He just kept shaking his head no no

But his dream was to become a fireman paramedic and that's what he is he's 6 ft 6 or 7 big buff good looking kid. They have good heads on their shoulders I just wanted to remind them to keep it there

[MicahRaine]

I don't have kids yet, but Raine and I are agreed that we will both have the more general sex talk with our kids together (unless one of our kids comes to a parent about it and doesn't want the other parent involved).

But I'll be the one talking to the boys about the more detailed stuff like condoms and jerking off and how to please a girl.

Raine will be talking to the girls about the flip side of that/how to track your cycle so you know when to have sex and how to please a guy.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It's very likely your kid will go to the parent of the same sex for this matter, or the parent looking the more open :)

[MicahRaine]

@Maybe_Maybe_not yeah. . . . .

[BetaBucks]

There are two "the talks" for each sex. Girls, it's period talk and sex talk. Boys, it's jerking off talk and sex talk. I'm a few years away from both, but will be fine with doing any of it. I'll insist on the jerking off talk with my son tho. He doesn't need the trauma of his mom talking to him about that shit.

[beefcakebradybatson]

You mean stay away from n***er boys at all costs? (Well, I don't think my mother told my sisters to avoid white lads, since one brother-in-law was German-Romanian-Canadian). Mother for the obviously female aspects of puberty,;dad for wanting to keep Daughter from the wrong chaps.

[MisterWack]

My father never gave “THE TALK” to me and I’m sure my mother / father didn’t give “THE TALK” to my siblings either.

It was through Sex Ed in school.

[exitseven]

The Mom did it I assume. Or maybe she looked it up on the internet, I did not see or hear anything about it.

[nawtee_me]

I was there listening while her mother had that talk with her. But I am not sure it did any good since she caught me and her mom having sex a few times….

[zombiewoof]

That would have been uncomfortable, i hade no kids, wife had a couple of girls, she did the talk

[jahaims]

We will do that together

[kareka]

Both...