Guys, dad's are you laid back with your teenage daughters or are you strict with them?

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[Summeroflove]

I think there is a balance. Parents should find what’s best for their family. If their daughter (or son) is a brat. Spoiled. Gets away with anything they’re setting their child up to fail. Spare the rod spoil the child. At a certain point in life people choose who they are. So not just putting blame on parents.

At the same time. Some people have good kids and they’re still hard on them.

[lightbulb27]

not srue the definition. We allow space but are active. cannot turn loose a 15 yr old to their own devices in this world. terrible idea. but don't want to restrict too much, they need to learn confidence.

the brain is not fully developed til around 28... long ways to go. the mind... is never finished...

[JacobJordan]

It is a parents responsibility to raise children to be decent and good people that bring respect to their family. I will do what is required or needed to bring about that result. We have 3 kids 2 girls and a boy none are old enough to have to worry about any of this yet so until then we have a schedule for them and that is about it

[Anonymous]

Not even close to being responsible enough for that, however I was raised strictly and did not like it, for me I would be laid back to horizontal. My older brother seems to be a bit strict, both me and my sis have told him to chill a bit, but as he said they’re his kids. We just rent them now and then lol.

[goaded]

Laid back, not that they're teenage any more. They are good girls, and I trusted them to make sensible decisions. Mostly! C:

[Todd9612]

I’m a dick to any boy that she hangs around, they all say I’m mean, and they’re afraid of me. I didn’t know what else to do, at least the no good little pricks know that if something happens to her, they’re first.

[yulbsari]

Don't be that way with ALL boys! They don't ALL deserve that! If you keep it up, you will damage your relationship with your daughter, and she will truly pick a boy you don't like out of rebellion towards you... and you won't understand why. You will have wasted your efforts. You need wisdom and discernment.

[Todd9612]

@yulbsari you’re 100% wrong she’s 23 and married with two kids now, her husband is a good man and hard worker.

[yulbsari]

Your statement is in present tense, not past tense. Your statement is completely confusing. Now, you are claiming this happened years ago?

[Todd9612]

@yulbsari if this confuses you, then maybe go back to watching the smurfs.

[yulbsari]

You're an ignorant asshole who needs to take English grammar classes. You are mixing tenses. I'm sure you can find an episode of Sesame Street that explains it on your level.

[Todd9612]

@yulbsari thanks

[Todd9612]

@yulbsari and you at age 41 still live in your mom’s basement

[KillinItHard]

I'm both. They each have their place when raising kids.

[jahaims]

What is and isn't strict is a matter of opinion so without an example of what is and isn't strict your question is too vague.

[KrakenAttackin]

Fathers need to be strict with daughters to try to keep them from becoming hoes.

[ScienceThumper]

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[IloveWinters]

I am against punishment culture, I would be a soft talker father for sure

[najekim]

Depended on the situation.

[muscles_glasses]

my dad was more strict with my sister than with me