What is one situation you had with a friend which made you feel embarrassed to the point where you're blushing?

What is one situation you had with a friend which made you feel embarrassed to the point where you're blushing?

During my freshman year of college, I had gone with a few friends to this café for some coffee and bagels. I had made a comment that one of the servers was cute and had a nice bubble butt. The only guy with us decided to get up, go to this man, tell him EXACTLY what I said, POINTED AT ME, and got me his number... I was blushing so God damn bad.
But it didn't end there...
This server comes up after a little bit to ask if we need anything, decides he's gonna have a little fun with it, and adds "Oh, and by the way, we do have warm buns that just came out of the oven" while doing a grinny giggly at me. I'm pretty sure my face was pure scarlet.
A group of us girls were having a girls night out, having a good time when my best friend suddenly got this very strange look on her face. She was wearing white pants, without warning her period started and by the time she realized what was going on the entire rear end was blood stained. Blushed but also felt very bad for her. We did group up around her and out to our cars
I would have died! 😭😭😭
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I don’t know if I was blushing off of it, but I have a friend who SUCKS to go out to eat with. One of those guys who considers himself a food connoisseur, and has all these high expectations of the server and the meal, and he has no problem being demanding or complaining if things aren’t to his liking. That embarrasses me to no end. I’m much more of a “if I don’t like the meal or the service, I’ll just not come back after this time.”
And one time, not even at a fancy restaurant, he tells all of us, with a smirk, “I’m gonna make this waitress earn her tip today”, and when she arrived, proceeded to ask her all these in depth questions about the specials, and wine, and had no intention of buying any of it. Just wanted to flex on her for some reason. He was perfectly polite to her, but I knew what he had said beforehand, and I was just like “Jesus, man🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️”
I’m the total opposite, because I’ve worked in restaurants before. I’m like cleaning the table before we leave, neatly stacking everyone’s plates, bunching the silverware into an empty glass, anything to ease the task of cleaning up after we leave😂
As the manager of a restaurant/bar this is something that happens much too often. Fortunately we have our regular menu, a daily specials menu and a full menu of speciality drinks, full beer list and current beer on tower list with back page of our wine options. A waitress at our place would just give this fellow you talk about all of the menu's letting him work it out himself.
@katiesmuff yeah, I was a bouncer and a manager but technically “Head Of Security”, so they’d throw me downstairs on the floor in the restaurant part of the business (bar/lounge that had security was upstairs and didn’t pick up til 7/8 PM). I’ve done food service as far as working an ice cream fountain, but I’ve never been a waiter, so I was a little lost down there😂
But anyway, yeah, I’d be kind of cruising the dining room, checking with tables, running food, etc, and I’d overhear THE WORST conversations about the server or how they were planning to complain about this or that to try to get a discount or something free, or even worse, deduct from the tip for non-service issues, or fabricated stuff altogether. People suck, lmao.
But my buddy is a real dick when he wants to be. Like he’d find a way to ask extra questions beyond the menu/specials board🙄 He’s such a cool kid too, otherwise, it’s the weirdest thing. I guess he supposedly grew up pretty poor and he LOVES being served, because he didn’t get to eat out much as a kid. I try to just avoid restaurants with him…. but he always picks up the tab, so….🤷♂️😅
My friend and I went to a movie and, during the movie, a fight broke out right behind us and the guys fell over the two of us. I managed to break it up and the guys were kicked out of the theater. But for some reason, management let one of them back in. After that I didn't feel safe so I told her we had to leave. On our way out, she asked to see the manager. While I stood there and waited for her, she demanded that he give us something like 22 free tickets, so that both of us could bring our entire families to 2 future movies. The manager told her of course he would give us 2 free tickets and she kept arguing with him loudly. All I wanted to do was leave before the movie ended and I politely asked for an escort to our car, to which he responded by calling security for us. She kept arguing, so I left and since I was the one that drove, I went home without her. I warned her I was going to leave with or without her, though. After 15 years of friendship, we are no longer friends.
@Peridot25 She absolutely did and, though I am rarely embarrassed, I really was in this instance. This and a couple of other incidents in the period of about a year, ended the friendship for me. In the theater incident, after trying several times to stop her demanding tirade, I had no compunction about leaving her there to fight her "battle." I don't think she ever forgave me, but I am nothing if not a woman of my word and I outright TOLD her I was going to leave her there if she didn't quit right then. Her choice!
That is awful…. One that they let the guy back in and second that your 15 yr strong friendship died over this. That is humiliating being between a shouting match & a reasonable manager just trying to make a living looking after the theatre. I’m happy you made the mature decision to leave without her, she made the wrong decision to not just concede & leave because she lost a good friend. I know you Caroline91 and you are a good human being, to lose that over this is just a shame.
Thank you for sharing, I hope it educates others to treat human beings with dignity & respect and sometimes your friendships & connections are more important than petty grievances. 2 free tickets is good enough, 22 is outrageous & selfish.
@MisterWack Thanks for the kind words, Wacky.
@Caroline91 You’re welcome 91!
we were at the resto with my group of friends, then some guys took a sit in front of us, one of us (T) noticed a guy and seemed interested So I wanted to help her except that I'm quite shy, so I asked another girl (A) to call the guy for (T) but instead of saying (T) was interested, she said that it was me, I was quite embarrassed and I told him my friends is interested but when we turned to her, she was on a call and he thought I was lying, I runaway 😭😭
When I was your age, my friend group started talking about... Solo fun times. I was a lot less open then than I am now, and I was an awkward shade of scarlet for the duration of the conversation 😅
She loves to feel me up in public places. That usually does it.
I once had a female friend that I was attracted to, told me I’m handsome. But she had a boyfriend so it ended there
I don't think that I've ever blushed I'm not sure though LOL
Groped my junk while dancing. Like, a couple decades ago.
We were dancing and they called out checking out my butt in front of a large group, who all joined in
I don’t blush with friends only people I’m sexually attracted to
I think i never tried blushing genuinely. But compliments and hugs can flatter me specially if theyre around my age
We were working out together and she wanted me to spot her and she said my sports suit was tight lol
My girlfriend can endless compliment me to the point where I am blushing. She is so good.
One of my really hot friends once rolled up her pants to pull her socks up, she has really nice legs, so I totally blushed.
When she teases with me with my crush
Said something personal in front of other friends
I don't know if anything
Held my hand
Watching me peeing!
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