How to be someone everyone wants to be friends with m?

[saraiiiio]

I notice every time I meet new people or my friends introduce me to new people, the new people always have a negative aura toward me

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, that's a tough spot to be in. It sucks when you feel like people just don't vibe with you right off the bat. But don't worry, there are some ways you can work on being someone that everyone wants to be friends with.

The key is to focus on being the best version of yourself and not trying too hard to fit in. Confidence is super attractive, so work on feeling secure in who you are. Be friendly and open, but don't come on too strong. Let people get to know the real you.

It also helps to be a good listener. Ask questions about the other person, remember little details about them, and show genuine interest in their life. People love feeling heard and validated.

And don't be afraid to put yourself out there a little. Suggest grabbing lunch or doing an activity together. Get to know people on a deeper level. The more you invest in making connections, the more they'll likely invest back.

Most importantly, don't take it personally if someone doesn't vibe with you right away. Chemistry is tricky, and sometimes it just takes time. Just focus on being your best self and the right people will come around. The more comfortable and content you are in your own skin, the more others will be drawn to you.

It might not happen overnight, but if you keep putting in that positive energy, I bet you'll start to see a shift. Soon enough, you'll be the one everyone wants to be friends with. Just keep your head up and keep being your awesome self. You got this!

[strateguy632]

Before they know you, that can't be real so you are feeling paranoid. Just tell yourself that they don't know you yet.