What do you guys think about it?

[floebee]

I have a 7 year old nephew and he is obsessed with coming into my room and stay with me but I have things to do like studying, so after a certain time I have to ask him to leave me alone and then he leaves. Also he has an annoying mom, she immediately gets offended when things doesn't go her way. My nephew tells her that I don't accept him in my room since I have things to do and she has a kind of attitude towards me. For example just now, I had to dry my hair so I asked him to get out and my nephew literally announced to every person in the house about how freaking long it takes my hair to dry. After I was done with my hair I was preparing to study and my nephew was still complaining to his mom and his mom also doesn't hold him back like she doesn't warn him at all, all she does is getting offended and attitude in the corner. My sister was talking to her and she said to his mom "tell her to accept him in the room" and his mom said with an attiude "I don't care, what can I do" I literally felt the attitude in her voice and it's just so annoying as if I have to please them. What should I do with these people?

[Garud]

It seems that the love that the child needs from his mother is being received from you, that is why he is coming again and again.
Your room is a relaxing safe zone for him where he feels good but you have given him this zone because of your kind heart.
But now you are getting overwhelmed and you are not the mommy of the boy,
First of all, stop his entry 100%. Even if he comes, don't pay attention, stay cold and dry like a strict teacher.
Whenever you are free, give him the attention he wants outside your room.
So that the safe zone that he is getting in your room will no longer exist, and he will lose interest in coming to the room after getting it outside the room.
By the way, keep giving him love for a year or two, the poor guy will get pushed away all his life later

[Garud]

and yes the boy's mother wants a free babysitter so it is obvious that she is annoyed that the free babysitter is refusing to give free service anymore

[floebee]

Thank you so much for help. ❤️

[Staximus]

It's your room, not your nephew's. You have your own life to live, it's not your job to entertain your nephew all the time. You are not a little kid his age that wants to play with him all the time. Your nephew and your stupid aunt need to be taught to respect you and your space. Hold your ground and don't give in to the demands of a spoiled child. Tell him to stay out of your room when you want to, and tell your aunt to get her child under control.

[floebee]

You are absolutely right she is a complete stupid and that's the most annoying thing. They make me feel like I'm doing something wrong but nah I got shits to do like studying or sleeping. What a stupid people

[Cutegirl06]

Not your nephews fault, not that you said it was. I would have a talk with your mom have her talk to your aunt, if that doesn't work then talk with her directly. Your aunt should be teaching your nephew about privacy and sometimes people need to be alone. I hope this helps.

[Jessica405]

Tell all that your room is your personal space, and is out of bounds to all unless specifically invited for a set time.

[floebee]

Seriously dumb people

[AhmetHasanCan]

7 years old is not too young, he can learn good and bad behaviors. He should respect people and know how to pay attention to private areas.

[Mettbltt]

don't care never mind

[floebee]

Exactly

[MK1997]

Tell them how you really feel

[floebee]

I cannot

[Anonymous]

The same question has been made already