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Have you ever been ghosted by a friend?

My best friend and I were ghosted by someone we spent a long time with. And to this day, we still wonder why,

We would hang out almost every weekend or every other weekend at most. We would FaceTime and text all the time. We were pretty close.

And then all the sudden he just stopped responding to us. Or he would text us a little bit but as soon as we mentioned hanging out, he would go ghost and not respond.

then it eventually got to the point where we didn't hear from him at all.

my friend and I have tried to figure out if we said or did something that made him upset and we can’t think of anything.

My theory is that one of the last times we made plans, we ended up getting busy and not going through with them. My friend thinks that can’t possibly be the reason because why would you end a friendship over ONE plan being cancelled. But he had a tendency of taking things very personally at times. I think it’s plausible although I agree that it’s a bit ridiculous. We are adults, we all have jobs and responsibilities. Plans fall through sometimes, that’s the reality of having adult friendships.

But he could just be a grown man and communicate and say “hey you guys made me upset” instead of just ignoring us and pretending our friendship never existed.

It’s really unfortunate. And it’s also sad knowing that he didn’t have a lot of friends.. all he had was family and a relationship with someone he was extremely unhappy with… 😵‍💫 so like damn why are you sabotaging your only friendship..

Have you ever been ghosted by a friend?
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