My Auntie is trying to kick my cat out, what do I do?

[AmeeliahLeh]

So yesterday, my auntie got into a argument with my uncle cause she doesn't like my mom apparently, and doesn't like the fact that me and my sister live at their house for school, We sleep in the garage which has a couch and necessities, but we only come in the house to wash up, use the bathroom, or to cook. And she doesn't like that, she has a problem with that, and I understand cause it's her house but she tends to be rude and mean to us and the animals, even when we Weren't living there for school, so since my uncle argued with her about it she wants to take out her anger on us by kicking out everyone's cat, my uncle's, mine, and my cousins, Despite getting the other 2 cats for them, mine basically walked up to me one day and I adopted her. I would stay with my mom instead but she's currently living in her car cause she got evicted from an apartment that raised the rent. What do I do? I'm not willing to give away my cat and the others just cause my auntie got mad at my uncle for us existing, she does things like this everytime she loses and argument or she's mad about something.

[Kaneki05]

Indeed a shit situation you go there. Best you can do is try to get your uncle to allow the kats back in and for him to keep trying to diffuse the situation. And you should bring in them when you can.

A lot of strange unreasonable people like this unfortunately and when it's family you can't escape it and even more so in your situation. Having to walk on eggshells around ones own home is awful and yes it might not be yours yours but at end of the day, a proper family member would see as so. Caring about your wellbeing.

[AmeeliahLeh]

I'll try, but he's more leaning towards giving the cats away cause she's been acting like this for years even after He's tried helping, bc honestly, the other two aren't mine but kicking animals out because you're mad about a argument is insane.

[Shiprex]

This is abusive behaviour. Your uncle can stand up to this bully and try to get the cats to remain as he is probably the breadwinner and she has as much right to his space being respected as she does.

[AmeeliahLeh]

Exactly, thats why I'm so confused when he just let's her run her over sometimes, he's married to her, he should have a say so in this house but he isn't doing anything but trying to give the cats away cause her attitude.

[Shiprex]

Yes it SHOULD BE like that but sometimes people are ah who need to be told by someone they respect to gtf. Sounds like uncle may not be strong enough to put up with her

[AmeeliahLeh]

Yeah he's been dealing with this for years and she has been like this since I was born. Apparently is cause she always lived with a lot people for her whole life but it's not an excuse to boss people around and be outright mean and rude. I have depression but I'm not yelling at people over my illness.

[Shiprex]

Maybe she's beyond recovery. I hope you can resolve this without the animals suffering.

[AmeeliahLeh]

Exactly, honestly in my opinion she's spoiled, and not spoiled as in she got that behavior from getting whatever she wanted, she's spoiled as in just a brat cause even though my uncle is the man of the house she STILL gets what she wants when she's whining about how we're here and how she doesn't XYZ here.

[Shiprex]

You're right there by the sound of it she's a selfish entitled POS who needs a sit down message sent to her from her husband

[Shiprex]

Thanks for the MHO

[itsannalee]

Tell your mom she doesn’t like you and your sister, and rent your own room.

[AmeeliahLeh]

I will try, my mom knows my auntie is like this, the only problem is I don't have a job and I'm still looking for one that I can get to , we sadly don't have much transportation

[Heusus]

Dont let ur aunt throw ur kitteh out

[AmeeliahLeh]

Fr, over my dead fucking body, throw my cat out and see what fucking happens. Cause Istg bro, it's entirely not her cat, she doesn't feed her, bathe her, spend time with her or nothing, neither with the other cats, she doesn't even own her cause my Cat found me, she wasn't bought by her or anything. So she has no rights to.

[Anonymous]

Report her to child protection

[AmeeliahLeh]

Real. I honestly want to cause I'm sick of deal with someone like this.

[GuybrushFunkwadd]

Talk to your aunt

[AmeeliahLeh]

I would but she's straight up evil step mother, so I can't really talk to her about it.