How do you deal with being rejected by family?

[Hellraiser1984]

Basically I'm kicked out of my dad's side because my grandmothers father didn't like my grandfather because he was in the military. I don't exist. All of them hate me and have tried to kill me multiple times. How do I move on from the pain and stress.

[rtj1211]

You have to say every morning 'I can choose my friends but not my family'. You had no say in who you were born to.

Also there is zero guarantee that a family is loving, fair and worth embracing.

Focus on what you can control, organise your life around people that do value you and ignore those that have pathetic prejudice.

[Anonymous]

Seems like you should go to the police and tell them about all the times they "tried to kill you"

[Abbycado]

You’re 41! Ffs

[Hellraiser1984]

Trauma can happen at any age.

[slatyb]

Move away if you haven't already.

[Anonymous]

You sound paranoid

[Hellraiser1984]

They want me drad

[Hellraiser1984]

Dead