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Is it a red flag when a woman has two baby daddies one child from the first and two from the second?

Am I wrong if I kind of don't want to associate myself with this one chick at my church? She married the youth pastor and I see that people don't usually talk to her a lot I can see where the people are coming from cuz me personally I think it's a red flag when a woman has more than one baby daddy I clarify baby daddy not husband like the first two there was no commitment now she's married of course like I said to the youth pastor which would make the youth pastor her third baby daddy cuz she is currently pregnant but I can see that she is left wondering why people don't want to associate themselves with her how can one let her know that maybe it's because she has two baby daddies and the thing is that the second and the third kid from the second baby daddy look really different from the first one so according to the standards of like church and society she's going to be seen as devalued cuz being a single mother and this society is bad as it is already and then it's even more bad when you are a single mother of multiple kids and it's even worse when you are a single mother with two baby daddies and three kids and two of those kids are from the second baby daddy which of course people are going to be thinking you just like being a hoe and then you get married to a youth pastor so of course you're going to face criticism heavy criticism which is funny cuz I used to get criticized for being a single mother to one child but my daughter's father died so it's not like I chose to be one and then she gets some form of praise but honest I think she's only getting this praise because of who she married even though behind her back the whole congregation is speaking mad crap about her like am I wrong for not wanting to be associated with her?
Is it a red flag when a woman has two baby daddies one child from the first and two from the second?
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