Is it creepy that my brother's first girlfriend and I are very identical?

[fonduegirl]

Same interests, same favourite heights, same height... Do you think my brother is creepy about it?

He says a lot of women are similar but I actually heard his Insta voicenote where he explicitly told her she reminds him of his sister...

On one hand, I'm like aww, on the other I'm like huh

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She says she has a boyfriend. There's a good chance she is lying. I play the boyfriend card when I'm not interested. I hope we aren't that similar.

IN ANOTHER NEWS I TOUCHED A CAT!!! SHE WAS SO SOFT AND SCARED AND CUTE its the guy next door

[lilBigPotato]

Maybe, maybe not? I think it depends on a few things... If it's just shared interests or and height and stuff like that, then I feel like you're reading too much into it. Having an overlap there isn't that uncommon. I could easily find many overlapping things with my brother's girlfriend if I wanted. I'm even friends with her because we do have some common interests but this never gave me any reasons to believe that he was looking for someone like me.

On the other side, if he's behaving creepy around you, making weird comments or innuendos... Yeah that would be a different story.

So if it's just about what you said in your post I would say no.

[Agape93]

Yeah, it's like a guy fucking a girl that resembles his daughter.

[fonduegirl]

Gross! 😭😭😭

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

"Same interests, same favourite heights, same height..."

Which wouldn't be uncommon, unless you have very niche tastes?

"I actually heard his Insta voicenote where he explicitly told her she reminds him of his sister..."

...2 things I'm curious about, why does he think it's a good idea to mention it to a lover 😂, and what was the reaction of this girlfriend to his statement

[fonduegirl]

I am active on Wattpad. It's hard to find Wattpad readers irl

[Kaneki05]

Familiarity, it makes sense to date someone like someone you know and are comfortable with.
Which is not creepy. Though it can be more I suppose.
The opposite effect also exists that makes you have an aversion to anyone like your sister or brother.
I find it odd he found someone like you tho? How? You be unique

[fonduegirl]

She's way more basic. It's his classmate

[uzumymw]

Doesn't have to be weird, but could be if he's dating her because of that. Do you look alike too?

[fonduegirl]

Thankfully no. She's got straight hair and she's very thin, I'm opposite.

[uzumymw]

At least it's not physical then! I can see how it can be cute but also creepy. He said she reminds him of you? Maybe you're just such a wonderful person and he wants someone as wonderful

[fonduegirl]

That's pleasant

[NathanDavis]

there's no such thing as "very identical"

either you're identical or not... lol

the rest depends on what you focus on... it could also be that you cherry pick the few things you two have in common and you're the one make it seem weird, lmao

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I like the cheekiness a lot here lol 🤝

... However there's this voicenote she mentioned

[NathanDavis]

@Maybe_Maybe_not yes, I know... in which the context was left out, lmao

you personally, you... also remind me of a friend of mine, and I can say this based on one trait, and such trait could be a good one or a bad one

and then I could look into it even more, and find two, or three different traits that you have in common with such friend or mine, or even my exes... but I would not go as far as to say that you are "very much identical" to my friends or exes lmfao

give me three full minutes... and I could find 9!!! things in common between my very best friend and Hitler, but I would never go to her and say " why am I even friends with you... " lol...

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

This is all very reasonable, I'm sure 1903 will appreciate that as well, with a grin maybe, but she will 😌

[NathanDavis]

@Maybe_Maybe_not or... she'll call me annoying again, or the many other words she's had for me over the years, lmao... Maybe, Maybe Not

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I know this story, not for years but enough to guess these words she has for you 😂

[MicahRaine]

I mean if y'all are like copy and paste identical, then yeah, that's weird. But if y'all just have good qualities that are similar, that's not weird at all.

[Theunfadeable]

It really sounds like you’re looking for something to be creepy.😆 unless your brother has a history of behavinh in a weird way sexually towards you, you’re probably being paranoid.

[loveslongnails]

Maybe he admires you and he's embarrassed to admit it?

[fonduegirl]

Well I know he looks up to me and stuff but it still weird

[loveslongnails]

Why is it weird... just because you're his sister? He admires you. It's not weird at all that he'd be attracted to a girl with similar traits as you.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, it's not creepy. It's a compliment. It means that your brother loves you and respects you so much that he wants to marry a woman like you.

[serious]

Does this really matter or concern you in any way? If not then you should not be overthinking.

[Grond21]

No, I think it should be interpreted as a compliment

[ABC1x1x]

No its actually pretty normal. A lot of woman date men similar to their male relatives too.

[slatyb]

It doesn´t seem creepy to me. He´s not hitting on you, so it´s between him and his girlfriend.

[Siajanua2027]

No, i think you may be over thinking this, take it as a compliment specially since you said you look like the opposite of her.

[Nikki1989]

Well, kind of.

[Lucianmagnus]

it is slighlty creepy esp if he said that

[jahaims]

You thinking it's creepy is creepy

[MemeSupreme]

no lol

[Celticwolf78]

Don't worry about it to much it's probably nothing

[beefcakebradybatson]

Sorta.