How would you cheer up a friend who seems really depressed?

[rapfan107]

[bobalife]

It’s difficult depending on the friend and their situations…
I think it’s good to check on them and how can you be there for them as a friend. Sometimes, this leads to asking if they want someone to listen or give advice.
Other times, a friend just need more of a “hey I’m gonna come pick you up and let’s go out to eat! Drinks! Play -“etc or “hey I’m gonna come over and check up on you” then bring their fave snacks or something.
And of course, a hug :)


Or maybe they’re not ready to talk…and need space to themselves.
You can let them know you’re here whenever they’re ready to talk.

[Sweetdreams1950]

By talking

[rapfan107]

How would you go about it tho?

[Sweetdreams1950]

I’ll ask what’s bothering you and listen to you

[rapfan107]

Yeah I'll try that see what happens!!

[Sweetdreams1950]

What was the outcome?

[rapfan107]

Well I haven't talked to him yet !! But you it's harder for guys to open up

[Sweetdreams1950]

I wish things weren’t like this

[rapfan107]

Well thats the way it is !! We're men we can't show emotion , we're supposed to be tough all the time

[Sweetdreams1950]

But showing your feelings is a human thing

[rapfan107]

I get that but for guys its different!! It's considered weak , you're told tk men up and suck it up

[Sweetdreams1950]

This situation is really getting on my nerves , We are human, and showing our emotions is our most natural right

[rapfan107]

I get that lol but its not the same for guys !! It's a lot more difficult, why you think many guys snap? They keep feelings bottled up for years

[NathanDavis]

first... I would have to actually know, if they're actually depressed... or they just seem depressed

for example... Roger, one of my best friends, he sometimes really seemed to be depressed, anxious, concerned, worried and what not...

this, during the whole high-school day... was he depressed? not really no... he just could not wait to get home and play with his brand-new videogame or whatever, lmao

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Usually a day for them disguised as a day for me. Some people like to feel like they're doing someone else a favor when they really need something done for them and getting them up and out initially is the hardest part.

[Hunter-40m]

I. m really bad at cheering up but maybe I can treat hım or her a drink something strong and have a chat to ease his her pain if my friend is a Man we can go to Pavilion together and enjoy the with the girls and drinks

[bubblydoubles]

Give them a hug, tell them to talk about how they feel and just listen, don’t blame them. Buy them a gift. Go out and do something fun and new together. Tell them how much you are there whenever they need you.

[performerwannabe]

Conversation and letting myself feel is what helps me so I'd encourage that. Let it all out, no judgment.

[Godihateyou]

Not my fucking job. I'd say "hay man, a
You seem down, get over it pussy" then never talk to him again untill he gets his shit straight

[rapfan107]

🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

I would tell them I'm even more depressed than they are.

[exitseven]

I would take him on an adventure.

[Tomislav7]

Sex n money. And companionship

[Staximus]

Take them to go do fun stuff

[LC75LC71]

Tread lightly..

[In_Trance]

You can't cheer up depression

[Agape93]

No idea

[robocop666]

blowjob?