Is it okay to let only one guy friend sleep over after my party?

[MissSunshine2]

I am throwing a house party later this year. I have invited three of my guy friends and two girl friends. Out of three guy friends, only one has agreed to spend the night (everyone would be in separate rooms from mine, I clarified with everyone). What if only one of my guy friends wants to sleep over, the one that tried to kiss me, the same day that my best girl friend tried to announce that she was leaving with him?

I had intended on three guys staying over. No sex, no funny business. No dramas. Just friends. If the others don’t stay over, then that’s just me and him. I can’t invite my girl friend to stay, because she’ll make my guy friend feel compromised and she’ll try to use my house as a sexual playground. I know she’ll want to stay and try to push for it if he stays. He’s already accepted the invitation but I honestly thought more people would be interested in staying over. I can’t invite my other girl friend either, because she prefers to be home by a certain time. Can I just say no to my girl friend staying over? Even if my other guy friends decline?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well that depends you said you dont live alone right

[MissSunshine2]

Right

[Bklynbadboy12]

So dod you talk to you roommates about him staying over

[MissSunshine2]

I just decided. My parents will be away, I’m house sitting so I invited three guy friends. Two accepted.

[NathanDavis]

if you trust your friends... should be no problem

[MissSunshine2]

I trust them. I just know my girl friend will act predatory towards my guy friend and scare him and ruin the vibe if she stays over.

[Abbycado]

No, absolutely not. Have you not read the handbook for slut, sorry, adult sleepovers?

[MissSunshine2]

You made me laugh, but honestly, there’s no intention for anyone to have sex. None of the guys are attracted to me and I’m only attracted to one. I have no intention of anything sexual happening.

[OneNisa]

... the night; it is decided how the girlfriends will dress that night; if their style of dress is provocative, sex enters the picture.

[In_Trance]

You wanted three guys to stay over, and there's no sex?

Yea ok

[MissSunshine2]

Yes exactly. None of the guys are attracted to me and I’m only attracted to one and there’s no intention of having sex.

[MissSunshine2]

What kinds of parties do most adults throw? lol

[In_Trance]

There's no way people at your age "sleep over" without fucking

[MissSunshine2]

Of course there is. I’ve done it several times.

[Summerskiss]

Sure, I mean as long as you both agree that it's not an invitation to have sex.

[MissSunshine2]

I clarified to him that it’s not.

[Summerskiss]

Good

[MissSunshine2]

I like him but he wanted to seduce me just to keep me in his life, rather than from romantic interest. I don’t find that very romantic.

[Summerskiss]

I absolutely agree. It's childish and dishonest.

[MissSunshine2]

Agreed.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

What did your parents say?

[MissSunshine2]

They trust me to be sensible but they wouldn’t want people trying to have sex at their house. Fortunately a second guy friend is coming now.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Just remember condoms prevent minivans so be careful & have fun.

[MissSunshine2]

But I have no intention of having sex and none of our guy friends are attracted to us.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Are there going to be adult beverages at your party?

[MissSunshine2]

Yes, but only one bottle of red wine shared between one of my guy friends and one of my girl friends. They’re not getting drunk.

[MissSunshine2]

and one bottle of white wine for my other guy friend.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

What is on the dinner menu? Snacks?

[MissSunshine2]

Probably. We’re having a big lunch.

[i_am_back]

Yes maam its completely okay. 🥰