I can't stand to be friends with weak people, is this normal?

[Anonymous]

I don't mean in the physical sense, I can't stand weak willed people, like it really bothers me and I'm wondering if this is normal, because literally that sh*t drives me crazy when I see situation like it. One of my acquaintances, never defends herself, instead she just makes excuses for the sh*tty people that are fake towards her. It's gotten to the point I'm starting to really dislike her and can't stand to be near her.

[JohnScofield]

Well... it is normal to some degree.. but you have to decide how you want to handle it. Not everyone is perfect ( I know you are not saying that... not syaing you are) and many have major issues that make them that way. I think that for you, maybe you are "friends" with them, but you can still be compassionate with them and empathetic.

That said... friendship is an investment. In a friendship you hope that just as you are there for others, they are there for you. WHen they are not, it is no longer friendship. In someways it might be charity if that makes sense and that is OK too, as long as you know what it is. Not sure this all makes sense, but I hope so.

[hipooplol13]

depends she might not be weak but could just be trying to keep the peace which is different entirely but you like who you like hate who you hate who gives a sh*t why

[oceansberlin]

same here... I don't think its wrong..