Do guys talk about their crushes to their friends like we girls do?

[Lonergirl0506]

I'm not saying those I second passing by and whispering she's hot, but the girl who they think of before they think asleep, the one they really hold feeling or interest with, will guys talk about the girl to their friends? Or will they must play it cool and keep the feeling to themselves?

Idk, I've a crush, and sure I talk about him to my friends all the time. Then one time I remember I went over to his crowd and ask their friends a questions, cause I don't wanna make it so obvious, then they all say no and suddenly a friend of his pops out from nowhere and answer my question, they all burst out laughing except him, who was just keeping his head down, smiling:) then he didn't come to the gatherings afterward cause he's abroad, strangely enough two of his friends are befriending me. One is being friendly to me after I helped him, the another one talked to me first and started teasing me somehow. Idk, what's more confusing is that after two weeks we haven't met each other, we became strangers again. We don't talk to each other but we stand by each other and walk with each other, that's not on purpose, it's just weird they're not talking with me again:(

[JohnWhilkins]

Depends on the person, their gender is irrelevant.

I never ever talk about it to anyone.

And everything that's weird to you right now with the teasing and whatnot is all part of you growing up :-P so don't stress it. Once you hit your early twenties you'll see a lot of difference just looking at maturity.

[Lonergirl0506]

But do you think he talks about me to them? Yes it's weird...

[JohnWhilkins]

It's really hard but I'd suggest you don't over-analyze anything at all. Even if your suspicions are correct that he did talk about it you'd be better off acting like he didn't anyway :-D.

What do you mean you've stopped talking actually? Don't you start conversations with them?

[Lonergirl0506]

I never really talked to my crush lol, one time I did approach and his frd( who was smoking) looks pissed off, but my crush friendly welcomed me or at least answered my question awkwardly. Then for his friends, we didn't really chat, just some small talks, maybe I shouldn't focus on them do much

[JohnWhilkins]

Don't care about others' looks it shouldn't bother you that much :-) (nobody is bothered about someone else approaching unless they feel threatened or feel like you're going to reflect who he hangs out with which means he'll come off even more insecure).

About your crush though... you gotta start talking to him haha. How else do you know if you like him or not?

[Lonergirl0506]

I talked, but it was awkward...

[JohnWhilkins]

Haha that's cute. How was it awkward?

[heyitsdan]

All guys do, if they say they don't their f***ing lying, I tell my best friend everything and some of my close friends (guys and girls). Theirs nothing wrong with talking to your friend with what's on your mind and or what's going on in your life which could be a crush.

[Lonergirl0506]

Finally sb with a sensible answer!

[JohnWhilkins]

I don't, I know some who do and some who don't. Not that there's anything wrong with it I'm just calling your bullsh*t, but I agree that people should be more open.

[heyitsdan]

You think you dont, but you do sorry.

[JohnWhilkins]

I just haven't done it yet, maybe I will. But I'm calling out for what it is ha ha your proof doesn't seem very compelling. Where's your scientific article on this?

[heyitsdan]

Where's your scientific article on this ?

[boomshakalaka]

I don't know about other guys, but I don't ever talk about my crush.

[thedude1994]

well yes I do but I don't make it obvious it's a crush I say that she looks nice

[JohnWhilkins]

Strangely enough I've seen a lot of guys doing this too :-P ... +1

[thedude1994]

well sure you did why wouldn't I tell them it's nothing to be ashamed of

[Anonymous]

No, never talk about crushes with friends. It's just not something we do.

[Lonergirl0506]

U speak behalf of the male population?

[Opinion Owner]

As much as anyone else here does.

[GAG1989]

no, guys don't ever talk about girls they like

[thedude1994]

that's sarcasm actually

[GAG1989]

youve passed sarcasm 101, congrats

[Anonymous]

Guys dont the girls they have crushes on remain in there heads. One thing u need to know is that crushes for Boys and talking about one specific hot girl come hand in hand.