Do guys talk about their crushes with their guy friends?

Question

Girls are always talking and telling their girl friends about their crushes... So I was wondering if it's the same for guy... If you don't do it, why?

Other_Tommy_Wiseau · Accepted Answer

not really. there are 3 types of talking (or non talking)
1- you talk with your guy friends like, "i call dibs (doesn't mean anything, don't worry girls)" or "hey, that chick over there is fucking hot. look at her tits. they're amazing..." you get the picture. it doesn't really mean anything and just pointing out that a chick is hot and you would bone her

2- wingmanning. like, i'll say a girl is cute and the guy friend tells me i should go talk to her. then i pussy out so he helps me as a wingman. i think she's cute, but it's more of a spur of the moment of me (or any guy) hitting on a girl. usually in clubs or some shit (but can be anywhere)

3- the last one is where you don't tell your friends and/or discuss it. i tend to not do this with any of my guy friends. an example is the fell in love (and still am) with my best girl friend. i have never, nor will i, ever discus this with any guy friend. i mean if someone asks, i'll tell them the truth that i like her. and in case you are wondering why i haven't told her, it's because i used to be (and kinda still am) a huge pussy and a few other actual legit reasons.

AllThatSweetJazz · Accepted Answer

If I do it's mostly to establish that I like this girl and you should help me out while not hitting on her yourself. I'd do the same for other guys if I'm not that interested in the girl. Really I'm only interested in: how much do you like her? Is she a nice? Is she a bitch? Can she hang with us? Is she treating you right? That kind of thing. I really don't see what's to be gained from tayoker's type of talk. I've never experienced that kind of talk myself, although there's probably some guys out there that talk like that - and *if* I were going to talk like that I think I'd rather do it with girls, honestly. With guys it's like I'm happy for you but I don't want to hear all that mate, fuck off. If it's things she does, like romantic gestures then I might be interested to know she's a keeper and what quality girls are capable of.

Autumn26 · Accepted Answer

I asked a few of my guy friends (platonic friends) about this question and they told me that they don't talk to other guys about who they have a crush on but they will normally tell me as i generally Know who has a crush on who. I'm not a gossip and i don't tell anyone what people tell me so that why i get the info aha. They said they don't mind telling me or another close friend thats a girl as we don't laugh at them for who they have a crush on like some other guys do... But thats just my friends, i can't speak for other guys.

butimsharon · Accepted Answer

Probably mention that in a cool way without describing any deep emotions. While we tend to imagine the way he holds you on your wdding day and tell that to our girlfriends, they're probably like:

"Hey brah, yeah I like that girl she's awesome" or in some other guy-ish way haha

existing_not_living · Accepted Answer

Lol, I know my best friend does with his guy best friend. But I don't even think he talks about girls with him as much as he does with me which can get really irritating. My other best friend talks about girls with his guy friends too. But again, he talks about them with me too.

DarkHumorRUs · Answer

My main three best friends in high school. I started talking to them about crushes about junior year, but of course they were as bad at getting girls as I am, or worse. So they couldn't help me much.

But yeah my best friend who I hung out with most in HS would talk to me A LOT about our crushes and girls and stuff. It was nice to have someone to talk to.

I'm pretty sure my whole family knows about my current crush, because me and my brother discussed it in depth, and my sister and mom and dad know I wanted to ask her to prom...

Anyway yeha we do.

mikemx55 · Answer

I would have to disagree with almost everyone here.
If it's just some hot girl, some comments may come up among guys...
But if it's a crush, I don't think men tell each other. That would mean talking about feelings, and men are terrible at it. Usually we notice by each others actions, but they don't actually talk about it. But maybe that's just my friends...

Kapakani · Answer

I don't because my guy friends all view chicks, one way!

Dude, she's just a girl.
Don't put that slut up on a pedestal.
Pussy is pussy brah!

So to keep from super high kicking, and hadouken-Ing all there faces. I just keep my feelings to myself.

hihjjih · Answer

We talk about women for sure. WE are men, men are simple. That's why we do it. I don't think all men go into deep detail, and some are sluts so they will go into every detail. But of course we talk, just a lot less then women, because, well, were men!

Prilee1992 · Answer

I used to talk about my crush to my guy friends, it ended up feeling ''awkward'' because rumours spread pretty fast. Always keep your secret with the girl from now on, so that she can trust you even more. Plus, guys are supposed to other important things, not just sit around there talking these nonsense. Talking nonsense should be left for women's department.

Anonymous · Answer

Then I am not like most girls. When I have a crush on some guy I usually keep it to myself. Maybe discuss it with just one close friend who I know would keep everything secret and take it to their grave. When I am sure and figure it is a real thing and not just a crush I would tell some b*tches so they stay away from my marked territory.

Rloco · Answer

I usually don't be a use most friends I have will usually pressure me into revealing my feeling to that person. While their intentions are good I usually know when girls aren't interested in me in that way which about 90% of the time. Girls usually get advice on how to flirt which will only result in not flirting back rather than direct rejection.

DodgersGM · Answer

Only my very closest friends, which is like two of my buddies. I like to get their feedback, and really just share about it. The topic doesn't last super long, though.

tayoker · Answer

Like... yo she got that ass... maan these boobs.. fukin i sleep on them never wakeup till next year... fukin i saw her eating that banana i don't know if she could handle my dick... if that's what u mean then yea..

Anonymous · Answer

Guess it depends on the guy, i personally find it easier to tell a mate or two that i really trust about who i like. They will proceed to give me some motivation and what not to go do something about it.

poopedmypantsagain · Answer

More women talk about this to their gilf friends then guy will talk about it, but then again some guys talk about women like they are some sort of a trophy and how many can they get as they think they are gods gift to women

Bimbobambo · Answer

No, I never did. Only when I think someone is beautiful then I be like "Ooooh, look at her! To my guy friends" but if there are real feelings, I never told anyone but the person I have feelings for.

Tdieseler · Answer

We do... but its not in the same manner as girls. simply put, the description and intentions are different.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes but in different ways. Also depends on how close the friend is too. I mean there's physical attraction and emotional attraction. Usually if it's someone we don't know or they know but I dont, i try to ask if the girl is available and if they can introduce me to them and be a wingman if neither of us know the girl.

thegreatone7 · Answer

The Great One says it's not as frequent as girls do but guys do talk about their crushes to their close friends when needed.

K1ll3r98 · Answer

uh, it's not very common but some guys do. i talk about my crushed to my girl friends. mostly because they can give more advice than guys can

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, but the way they talk is different. My brother talked about his crush and it wasn't very detailed or mushy.

RedThread · Answer

Nah I don't tell my guy friends about shit like that. I tell my female friends though lol

Anonymous · Answer

I only ask my best female friend, but we got feelings for each other and things got ugly so now i have no one to trust enough to tell, but she was amazing i know now more about myself and girls thanks to her.

Conflustered · Answer

Omg if anything guys are worse. At least the guys I know anyway

abc3643 · Answer

Yes we do - at least when we are older and at a bar.

DeltsBrah · Answer

Well I tell my close friends that way I get it out of my system and also get second opinions on the girl. One time my buddy said that girl was bad news and to watch out I didn't heed his warning and got hurt.

Sam19XX · Answer

Definitely. But you know , we should not make generalizations like that , so we should just say "some of us do" and "some of us don't".

TheGuyFromMiddleEast · Answer

Well, not as detailed as girls. We have more of a protective side when it comes to issues about our lady.

CountVronsky · Answer

I usually don't do it. It loses a bit of its magic if you tell everyone.

MrKabuki · Answer

We don't really call it crushes. And when we do talk about it, it usually just the let the other dude know which gitl your hitting on.

MuyBien · Answer

I don't, don't talk to anyone about anything like that really.

Anonymous · Answer

I sometimes used to, but now I keep it to myself unless I need advice or help.

Anonymous · Answer

because we are not indiscreet gossipmongers like you.

WhatTheHellAmy · Answer

I bet they do... Not in the same way we do tho lol

Anonymous · Answer

Usually not crush conversation but more or less I'd fuck that chick or I have feeling for her

GoldenSunshine · Answer

My boyfriend and his friends do

IamNuts · Answer

I'm pretty sure they do.

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

My inner circle of guy friends, yes

Dat_Kid · Answer

They do we not that different

iam2cool · Answer

Sometimes when we are in pain!!!

Strider90 · Answer

yes it is the same.

ThatGuy98 · Answer

Not really

Byakuyarko · Answer

never sober.

Imgurian · Answer

Yes of course!

Clovis93 · Answer

Yes we do.

PizzaGuy22 · Answer

not anymore haha

ihatethiswebsite · Answer

I personally don't

Anonymous · Answer

I never tell.

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