not really. there are 3 types of talking (or non talking)
1- you talk with your guy friends like, "i call dibs (doesn't mean anything, don't worry girls)" or "hey, that chick over there is fucking hot. look at her tits. they're amazing..." you get the picture. it doesn't really mean anything and just pointing out that a chick is hot and you would bone her
2- wingmanning. like, i'll say a girl is cute and the guy friend tells me i should go talk to her. then i pussy out so he helps me as a wingman. i think she's cute, but it's more of a spur of the moment of me (or any guy) hitting on a girl. usually in clubs or some shit (but can be anywhere)
3- the last one is where you don't tell your friends and/or discuss it. i tend to not do this with any of my guy friends. an example is the fell in love (and still am) with my best girl friend. i have never, nor will i, ever discus this with any guy friend. i mean if someone asks, i'll tell them the truth that i like her. and in case you are wondering why i haven't told her, it's because i used to be (and kinda still am) a huge pussy and a few other actual legit reasons.
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If I do it's mostly to establish that I like this girl and you should help me out while not hitting on her yourself. I'd do the same for other guys if I'm not that interested in the girl. Really I'm only interested in: how much do you like her? Is she a nice? Is she a bitch? Can she hang with us? Is she treating you right? That kind of thing. I really don't see what's to be gained from tayoker's type of talk. I've never experienced that kind of talk myself, although there's probably some guys out there that talk like that - and *if* I were going to talk like that I think I'd rather do it with girls, honestly. With guys it's like I'm happy for you but I don't want to hear all that mate, fuck off. If it's things she does, like romantic gestures then I might be interested to know she's a keeper and what quality girls are capable of.
I asked a few of my guy friends (platonic friends) about this question and they told me that they don't talk to other guys about who they have a crush on but they will normally tell me as i generally Know who has a crush on who. I'm not a gossip and i don't tell anyone what people tell me so that why i get the info aha. They said they don't mind telling me or another close friend thats a girl as we don't laugh at them for who they have a crush on like some other guys do... But thats just my friends, i can't speak for other guys.
Probably mention that in a cool way without describing any deep emotions. While we tend to imagine the way he holds you on your wdding day and tell that to our girlfriends, they're probably like:
"Hey brah, yeah I like that girl she's awesome" or in some other guy-ish way haha
Lol, I know my best friend does with his guy best friend. But I don't even think he talks about girls with him as much as he does with me which can get really irritating. My other best friend talks about girls with his guy friends too. But again, he talks about them with me too.
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My main three best friends in high school. I started talking to them about crushes about junior year, but of course they were as bad at getting girls as I am, or worse. So they couldn't help me much.
But yeah my best friend who I hung out with most in HS would talk to me A LOT about our crushes and girls and stuff. It was nice to have someone to talk to.
I'm pretty sure my whole family knows about my current crush, because me and my brother discussed it in depth, and my sister and mom and dad know I wanted to ask her to prom...
Anyway yeha we do.I would have to disagree with almost everyone here.
If it's just some hot girl, some comments may come up among guys...
But if it's a crush, I don't think men tell each other. That would mean talking about feelings, and men are terrible at it. Usually we notice by each others actions, but they don't actually talk about it. But maybe that's just my friends...I don't because my guy friends all view chicks, one way!
Dude, she's just a girl.
Don't put that slut up on a pedestal.
Pussy is pussy brah!
So to keep from super high kicking, and hadouken-Ing all there faces. I just keep my feelings to myself.We talk about women for sure. WE are men, men are simple. That's why we do it. I don't think all men go into deep detail, and some are sluts so they will go into every detail. But of course we talk, just a lot less then women, because, well, were men!
I used to talk about my crush to my guy friends, it ended up feeling ''awkward'' because rumours spread pretty fast. Always keep your secret with the girl from now on, so that she can trust you even more. Plus, guys are supposed to other important things, not just sit around there talking these nonsense. Talking nonsense should be left for women's department.
Then I am not like most girls. When I have a crush on some guy I usually keep it to myself. Maybe discuss it with just one close friend who I know would keep everything secret and take it to their grave. When I am sure and figure it is a real thing and not just a crush I would tell some b*tches so they stay away from my marked territory.
I usually don't be a use most friends I have will usually pressure me into revealing my feeling to that person. While their intentions are good I usually know when girls aren't interested in me in that way which about 90% of the time. Girls usually get advice on how to flirt which will only result in not flirting back rather than direct rejection.
Only my very closest friends, which is like two of my buddies. I like to get their feedback, and really just share about it. The topic doesn't last super long, though.
Like... yo she got that ass... maan these boobs.. fukin i sleep on them never wakeup till next year... fukin i saw her eating that banana i don't know if she could handle my dick... if that's what u mean then yea..
Guess it depends on the guy, i personally find it easier to tell a mate or two that i really trust about who i like. They will proceed to give me some motivation and what not to go do something about it.
More women talk about this to their gilf friends then guy will talk about it, but then again some guys talk about women like they are some sort of a trophy and how many can they get as they think they are gods gift to women
No, I never did. Only when I think someone is beautiful then I be like "Ooooh, look at her! To my guy friends" but if there are real feelings, I never told anyone but the person I have feelings for.
We do... but its not in the same manner as girls. simply put, the description and intentions are different.
Yes but in different ways. Also depends on how close the friend is too. I mean there's physical attraction and emotional attraction. Usually if it's someone we don't know or they know but I dont, i try to ask if the girl is available and if they can introduce me to them and be a wingman if neither of us know the girl.
The Great One says it's not as frequent as girls do but guys do talk about their crushes to their close friends when needed.
uh, it's not very common but some guys do. i talk about my crushed to my girl friends. mostly because they can give more advice than guys can
Yeah, but the way they talk is different.
My brother talked about his crush and it wasn't very detailed or mushy.Nah I don't tell my guy friends about shit like that. I tell my female friends though lol
I only ask my best female friend, but we got feelings for each other and things got ugly so now i have no one to trust enough to tell, but she was amazing i know now more about myself and girls thanks to her.
Omg if anything guys are worse. At least the guys I know anyway
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