Is it OK to ask your female friend for a makeout session?

[Anonymous]

I have a female friend that is really hot, and obviously she has friend-zoned me, but I really want to make out with her.

I'm not even aiming too high, I'm not trying to make her my girlfriend or even have sex with her, which would be nice of course. But I was thinking that maybe if I just ask for a makeout session she would agree so I can take the desire away off my body.

I mean a makeout is a really nice thing to do 'cause you can hug her and hold her really close to enjoy her tongue and lips, you can even make her feel your hard on against her body, grab her head, etc.. All those things are really cool and I'm sure it would be enough for me to get over her.

The whole reason why we guys want sex in the first place is that we want to tell the girl that we really like her, and some how just saying the words is simply not enough to communicate that and let it out of your system, but a good make out session can definitely work.

Do you think that if I tell her that it is going to be just one time and that it is just to let her go off my system, and that after is done I'm going to be cool and I won't be clingy, and that we can be just friends again, do you think she would accept to let me do it?

She is really hot and sweet and I really want that experience with her.

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Well, so these are the news, and I don't care if you believe me or not, but this is what is going on. I decided to man up and tell her how I felt and she said the same bush*t people here were saying that it was not going to work and that it was not going to be enough for me to get rid off my neediness, that even before I told her about this, she already felt my neediness, she said a makeout is nothing anyway, and this is the best part, she told me that she cared for me and that she was willing..

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... to have full on sex with me with the condition that we stop being friends altogether after that. That means no more talking, no more texting, no even more Facebook friends. She was right in front of me, so obviously it was a very easy decision and I said yes, but I told her we had to do it right away before she changed her mind, so she said is OK. we were already in my room as I planed the whole thing ahead. I asked her for foreplay because I felt it was going to be necessary anyway for her.

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... to get in the mood, so she said is Ok, and I started making out with her, and sure enough, I wanted more after it, but that's just because at that point I knew I was going to get more in the first place, so yes I did touch her everywhere, I squeeze her butt, her calves, I kissed her whole body from the legs to her front head., I did everything I wanted, I suck her breasts, she just didn't let me go down on her, as she was laying down I climbed on her and asked her for a blowjob...

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She nod and I went ahead and put it in her mouth, I got goosebumps, which is weird, but it was awesome to see her face right there and my penis right there in her mouth, then I wanted to do it already, so I took it out and put up the condom, but I didn't want to do it with a condom, so I kind of distract heer by kissing her shoulders, and I took it off, and throw it away without she can tell, and yes I finally put it in, I couldn't believe what was happening, but I was so excited that I decided

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to pound her really hard, I was pounding her so hard that I had to pull her down every now and then so she doesn't hit her head against the wall, also this way I was really telling her how much I wanted her. After a while I wanted to switch so I turned her face down, and with her legs extended on the bed I put it in back again, she still didn't sau anything about me no having a condom, it was nice to pound her while grabbing her buttchicks, her back and hair was giving me a nice view so much

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so much that I wanted to come, and fair enough I couldn't hold it and came inside, when I pulled out after I finished coming, the semen somehow slipped out of her vagina and she noticed I didn't have a condom, I was expecting her to get really mad, but I didn't care because I really wanted to come inside and I thought I was not going to have another chance. To my surprise she didn't said nothing, maybe because she was still fired up, I did bang her for a very long time in those 2 positions, she

[Anonymous]

Ok so you believe that once you passionately kiss your friend, that somehow it would get her out of your system for good, ..after you finish telling her all the things you wanted to say to some time now in the heat of the moment by making her feel your hard on her body, and her hard nipples against her your chest her soft wet lips and her relaxed tounge on your neck, as she crying for you to take her cause she's so wet for u, she grabs your hand and guied your hands to her breast to feel her now your rubbing on her breast going back and forth between sucking her nipples and her lips to her tounge to her neck back to her breast, then she take your hand an pull it to her hot wet juicy p**** .

so you can feel what your makeing happen. You know see how bad she actually wants u.

She then grabs your d*** tightly as it is brick hard right now your pelvis is moving in way immataing sex cause your whising her hand was her hot wet p****...and oh bot now your mind is going crazy cause now you have to release...Now what. ? Is it just a make out session then?. If she walked away from that you would honestly want nothing more, or wouldn't want to feel that way again?. ...really?.

[Asker]

Well it would be cool if it leads to sex, then for sure I would get out, but I don't expect even the nipples to come out at all.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol, your to kool for me I was trying to stir up some bothersome sexual emotion, so it look like your serious, a great make out session and then it done huh, well good luck ...it just might work, but what ever I do please keep me updated.

[Asker]

thanks

[Anonymous]

if you're in the friend zone then logically think about this, she wouldn't want to kiss you. At all. So your feelings about needing to let off steam and all that simply just don't matter.

I love this response by Light Yagimi:



Playing the friend angle to get the type of women you're after is like starting as a janitor and making it up become the CEO of the company. It's a long process with a VERY low success rate. You have 3 options IMO to move up your class of women..Money, Gym, Appearance, Confidence, as the first option is usually unrealistic.. you need to do at least 2 out of 3 to change your appeal.

SO TRUE.

[Asker]

Well women should not be so shallow about money, we are shallow about looks, women should be happy being shallow about looks and not add the money part. And I never had tried to kiss her before. I had told her I liked her in many way, but I had never ask for an official date, or for her gto be my girlfriend. I usually get friend zones when I see the girl doesn't give me any clear signals to make a move.

[Opinion Owner]

We can be "shallow" about whatever we want.you don't have to like it and you don't make the rules.

[Asker]

I know I still think culture must change, it is a bit unfair for guyn nowadays, everyday I see great guys with ugly ass girls because of the bush*t

[RedSmartie]

I think it's okay.

A long time ago my friend asked me to be his first kiss because he was self-conscious of the fact that he was about to turn 16 without having been kissed yet. I agreed because I cared about him and because I like kissing. Your situation isn't much different. She'll probably agree too it, and if she doesn't it probably won't be awkward if you ask her casually and don't get angry or upset when she says no.

[Light_Yagami]

ROFL You've creeped me out and I just read your plan so actually putting it into motion is going to creep the hell out of this poor young woman.

You're in the friend zone for a reason, she isn't going to give a flying f*** about what you need to do to come to that realization. Use all this energy to move on and find someone who's interested, save what little pride you still have remaining.

[Asker]

Girls that are interested are usually unattractive and overweight. So I might as well try to go for the hot ones. I'm not the one that just gives up on life and rationalize is OK to not try anything because someone may think is creepy.

[Light_Yagami]

Playing the friend angle to get the type of women you're after is like starting as a janitor and making it up become the CEO of the company. It's a long process with a VERY low success rate. You have 3 options IMO to move up your class of women..Money, Gym, Appearance, Confidence, as the first option is usually unrealistic.. you need to do at least 2 out of 3 to change your appeal.

[Asker]

Yeah man Gym I'm doing because that's easy, money not so much, confidence can be done and appearacne well meoney would help with dentist and cool cloth

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't do it if you want to stay friends with her. There's a reason she friend zoned you. If she wanted your body, but not a boyfriend she might have hinted at fwb. Can you imagine rejecting a girl who wanted to be your girlfriend, and then she asked..."well, can we just have sex then?" I think most people would be creeped out.

[Asker]

I wouldn't be creeped out.

[Opinion Owner]

Would you accept the offer?

[Asker]

Yeah, if it is one time.

[Anonymous]

I'm actually really surprised that more girls said yes to the plan than guys...well I agree with the guys on this that it's kind of creepy. Maybe if she's into just hookups like that then she'll agree to it, but it depends on what kind of girl she is. And sorry but I doubt that making out with her will get it out of your system. You'll probably just want more. There's nothing really that can stop that feeling you have. If you actually like her, then try to date her, not make out with her.

[Asker]

I need more money to start dating girls, I'm too poor these days, maybe in the future.

[Anonymous]

If she's not interested then she probably is not going to agree to it. She's not some object there for your enjoyment. And you definitely will be clingy if it does happen, you'll just want more. Find a girl who actually wants to do this stuff with you.

[Asker]

I won't be clingy I promise. In fact I swear I won't. And I'm not looking at her as a toy obviously. I think I explained why not very through on the question.

[dave32xxx]

you will totally freak her out man, instead try flirting with her and see if you can escalate things to that level

[Asker]

Oh I flirt with her all the time, and she is cool about it, but I think just trying to make a move is going to be way too rude. I think is better just to ask. We are very honest with each other any way and talk about a lot of personal stuff with each other.

[dave32xxx]

ok that's good, then I think your all set for your move bra.good luck with that

[Asker]

I'm just thinking about asking.

[dave32xxx]

yeah, go for it man

[patoot10]

i think that you might creep her out if you did so .. just let it go you said it yourself she friend-zoned you

[Asker]

Trust me, I wish I could let it go. You know how annoying these things are, it sucks they are totally involuntary.

[Anonymous]

Sounds so nice, go for it. But first do you think she wants you?

[Asker]

I don't think so, you woukd think she would make it clear by now.

[Opinion Owner]

Well. Again I say go for it? Are you gonna ask her or just do it in the moment? this is exciting

[Asker]

Both

[Anonymous]

lol interresting. let us know how it goes. Do it for science.

[Asker]

I like you attitude

[anon1111]

This is the creepiest, most desperate hookup plan I've ever heard.

[Asker]

I'm a guy and I don't gvet how is it creepy.

[anon1111]

The girl already friend zoned you, bro. If you asked her for a make out session after that she'll think you're a psycho.

[Asker]

Better than never try.

[Anonymous]

yea try it see what she says

[Asker]

So you think is fine to give it a shot?

[lovelysecrets33]

Yeah give it a shot, all of the emtional romance, and yet none of the mystery is lost.. How erotic, I love teasin, and being teased. I wish all men had the courage to express this. And the way you described it smh..mmm.. I really hope it works out for ya! If it does let me know, I can really use your way of thinking in my life. Give a little to slow the urge down,. And instead of words getting in the way your kissan touch will explane it all... Good luck babes.

[Asker]

thanks

[lovelysecrets33]

I was curious to know if it worked out for you.?

[Asker]

it didn't let me update more

[lovelysecrets33]

Omg don't keep in suspended lol well did she give you a blow job...your lying.. She did not say let's have sex...omg she's a freak this is soon juicy. OK so.

[Asker]

I'll update next week, it doesn't let me update more than 3 times, it's good in a way because there are still things unresolved with her and maybe by next week they will clear out.

[lovelysecrets33]

Well what happened to this being a one time thing?...Are you guys Fwb now?, do you find yourself wanting more of her, or was it enough to take the desire away.

[Asker]

Yes, we are dating now. I still like her a lot because she is super hot, but I don't feel needy as before we had sex. The first week she did not talk to me, but then she told me she liked me after what happened, so we are dating now.