Girls, Is it ok to ask a girl for sex directly after 5 dates of kissing & fondling fully clothed?

[Anonymous]

On the last date she kept asking how far my place was and talking about her place and also nearly missed her last train home until I put her on it.

Yes that’s fine - she probably expects it

No it’s not ok - wait until she initiates it

[ShellyB]

How have you fondled her like are you openly touching her boobs and butt or do you mean just cuddling? I am not trying to be nosy I just mean if she likes being fondled in a more sexual way I think you can escalate physically, if I were her I would prefer that to being verbally asked (though I voted yes in the poll). For example if you got your hand under her top and were touching the skin on her back. Or if your fingers traced around the waistline of her pants. If she seems to like it you can go another step like you can unbutton her pants, every time you escalate check and see if she is enjoying it or if she seems nervous or is getting upset, if she does not seem to like it slow down.

[LazerBean]

Depends on the girl.