Is it ever okay to ask a girl if you can kiss her?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes this girl seems like she's going to give me the go ahead and other times not. What do you think?

[udolipixie]

Yes

There are some girls who don't like a guy doing whatever he wants to their body

Most girls however are in lala land and think it's more romantic for the guy to go for it and not be nervous or having second thoughts.

Just make a game of it.

I'm going to kiss you in 3 2 1. kiss

She can easily step away if she's not interested. If she does just go in for a hug and kiss her on the forehead.

Sad that the guys I know didn't think of this it would have their jewels a kick.

[Anonymous]

I think you should look for signs that she really likes you and wants you to kiss her.And yes it's OK to ask a girl if you can kiss her. But most girls think its more romantic for a guy just to take initiative and just go for it. However some girls have a different mentality and don't really like guys to do that. But I like udolipixie's idea of making it a game that would be really cute if you did that .

[Anonymous]

If your getting the vibe just lower your eyes and lean in, take the initiative don't hesitate but please don't grab her forcefully and give her no chance of pulling back hold her gently. I was talking to a guy I had just met literally two minutes before and he grabbed me hard by the back the head and jerked me forward and just crushed his lips against mine that was just scary. He wasn't even drunk.

[Quadrophonic84]

I remember doing this once and I felt like an idiot. I was maybe 17. It's pretty lame since most girls like it when the guy just take initiative and does what he wants. If she's holding your hand, and/or making lots of eye contact, then you've got the green light.

[tex151]

Nope never OK to ask a chick if you can kiss her. Just simply lean in and go for it. Most women will say they hate it when a guy asks, and if he really wanted to kiss her then why didn't he just go in for the kiss. Take charge and kiss the girl simple as that.

[nbbrown6]

honestly, I think it makes a guy seem boyish. every time I have hooked up with a guy I was the one that initiated it because he took so dam long. I would much rather a guy just be bold and straight up kiss me than doddle around and then ask me if it is okay if he kisses me. Taking charge is hot and manly. and if a girl isn't into kissing you, rejection is rejection whether is is a verbal "no" or a surprised squeak and a shove to get you away.

[beastman88]

its alright, some girls may think its weird. every girl I've asked to kiss seemed happy that I asked. at least you'll never have to ask again, some girls would think its gentlemanly and romantic. everybodies different

[christian2724]

Dont think so much. Just do it if you want. If it's not awkward a lot of girls will appreciate you respecting them by asking. But once you have her figured out don't ask. Just do it.

[island_princess]

YES ! ask her go for it what are you waiting for ! this is your chance. If you ask me I would say yes. =) =P

[moviedude714]

not really, it makes you look weak, girls will always look for every flaw or red-flag that makes a guy look weak in every way possible, rejection is fine I just don't want to get slapped that's what

[daniellepg]

lol. that would be awkward, but YES. it is desirable. it shows that you respect her. :)

[AliceMcKay]

Happened to me... I didn't mind it, but I would have been more romantic if he just went for it...