Polls: Family & Friends

why or why not? do you still love them?

Especially if you have stairs then you gotta step over them.

My fiancé wants to us to co-parent her nice, and sign her life away to be godmother to her friend’s kids. Which means I’m responsible for those kids if she takes them in, which I really don’t want.

I never planned on having kids. Neither did she, which is why we started dating in the first place. We both agreed that kids aren’t for either of us to a point where she even had an abortion.

Also, she keeps trying to talk me into having a vasectomy and I keep telling her “no”. I was supportive of the abortion because I don’t wanna put in the work/money into raising kids.

This morning we had the discussion about being the god mother to her friend’s children and her nice. To be honest I don't know if I wanna be with her if I have to raise another man’s children.

I asked her “why would you have an abortion and still adopt?”. Her response was “because I don’t have to birth them. My niece is my flesh and blood who’s apart of me, so you must treat her like your own child”.

She’s so anti having kids but wants us to be involved with everyone’s kids. It’s really fuckin annoying!!!

Would I be an assholes for walking away from her?

Does this sound too intimate, or perhaps something you would want your brother or sister to occasionally do as a greeting if you haven't seen them in a long time or perhaps travelled a long way to see you with their wife and kids, who would shower you with kisses too? Some cultures kiss as greetings, so I figure, why stop with a simple peck on the cheek when you could really show them how you feel?

Your husband would make enough to support the family comfortably

Say if he is a baby or toddler, what would you do?

There was an actual video but the mother deleted her x account shortly after this lol

I know some people who won't let you take out their trash cans while they're away on vacation, and I know others who have an "open door" policy where they allow and encourage others to enter their homes at any time without any warning.

So, how much privacy do you like in your own home?

For me, it depends on the person. For some people (even for a few who think I'm their friend), I don't want them to ever know where I live. For others, I'm happy to invite them over. And if we're really close to each other and we're "ride or die" friends, all you need to to is knock on the door and maybe wait a few minutes or give a quick call to let me know you're showing up on my doorstep.

Now, if you're really super close to me (and Raine) and you're one of the few people we share almost everything with, you probably have a key to our house and you're welcome to walk in even if it means interrupting our lovemaking by knocking on the bedroom door. Just don't make the latter bit a habit.

I get carded when I was 38- I have always looked younger than my age, but in this case I was also with people who were 22, 23 years old, so I'm sure that was a contributing factor.

I heard a story about my grandpa's friend who lived with his mum until he was 80 and she was 101. She died, he inherited her house and lived in it by himself until he died when he was 88.