Questions: Family & Friends

Why do we push masculine/feminine traits on kids?

Do you still feel embarrassed if you don't have anyone around to see it? like say tripping over something?

Here is situation:
son is 28 years old, makes over 100k a year. Lives with family because he chooses to take care of them. House his sons. Father makes no money and does not work. Father won’t allow son access to any of his money because father doesn’t want him spending it on his girlfriend or cigarettes.

does father have right to do this? Is he in the right?

Would you let a 13 year old kid go to the grocery store buy itself and shop for groceries if you gave that child some money.

Who do you think is more ticklish?

Are mothers still the main nurturer or are absent fathers to blame?

A couple years ago (then a HS senior), I was a total jerk and humiliated a girl that had a crush on me. She accidentally left her journal and I stole it for 2 days, made copies of it, gave it to several classmates and made an ugly drawing of her with herpes. I was trying to get more attention and wanted to be popular.

It totally backfired. Only 4 classmates laughed while (including my 2 best friends) most were upset with me. To make long story short, I got drunk with my friends and they shaved off my eyebrows and parts of my hair on top was shaved (it had capital letters LOSER carved on top) while I was asleep. I had to still go to school and it caused some laughter.

Was that deserved? That was super embarrassing to be honest. I had to wear a cap for a while and wait for my eyebrows to grow.