"How often do you listen to your considered best friend?" Always. They wouldn't be my friends if I didn't. Listening is a key part of relationships of any kind.
"Do you make her/his suggestions on all aspects of your life?" It depends on what it is. But it, but we at least take about it with each other.
"How frequently you let her/him stick her/his nose to your friendships/relationships?" HUH? Nobody ever sticks their nose in anyone's busy. It is your choice to share depending on how close you are. But people naturally don't get into other's business. If they do, make sure it is for good reasons. Otherwise, you may not have a healthy-minded person for a friend.
"Do you completely trust her/him to make changes in your life?" Wait, what? That is nobody else's job but yours. And that is between you and God. Not another human being. If you can't be independent as an adult, you need your parents, not friends.
" I wondered because I’ve seen someone experiencing it. Her relationship ended with a guy because her best friend gave her anxiety over that guy. Her best friend's relationship life was pretty bad with guys; her best friends way of perspective with males weren't the same with her. Her best friend questioned her mind over not trusting him, and their relationship ended at last. I suspected that she wasn't happy with her getting happy and became jealous. Maybe she was narcissistic and let her be available only to her" First let me ask you something. Do you know both of these women personally and are they your friends? If not, it's best you don't speculate. It depends on who you are referring to. What I had to tell one of my friends who had for me to help with those decisions was this:
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I rarely ask anyone for advice. Friends generally come to me for advice. I prefer to find my own solution to a problem/issue.
I know myself more than anyone knows me, so I'm better at judging what decisions and choices I should make in my life. I'll take on board any advice people offer, but in the end , I do what I believe is best to do in any given situation or dilemma
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I have had three best friends before and all of them ended up leaving me (or ill say I was the one who confronted them first) because they literally controlled my life, telling me what to do, what not to do.
Last to last year in my freshman year, i got a new best friend and she's amazing. She respects my decisions and only advises or gives suggestions when she thinks she needs to. She does it because she cares about me. And this is my first ever friendship with someone where we are both completely equal. So i feel i don't NEED to let her tell me something or not. She knows what she's doing :))I listen all the time. I listen when she complain about her boyfriend, family, being in late 20s and being depressed.
I don't have any friends so I guess I don't listen to them.
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